YesIWILL wrote:

So the past week or so, I don't know how this happened; i've just begun to feel massively depressed. Like, things have been going horribly for me lately, and whenever I look in the mirror, I feel like I'm ugly af, which adds onto the anxiousness and depression, my family seems fairly uncaring toward me, and everyone I talk to seems to have more interest in others than me, whether that's friends or more. It's just made me feel insecure, ugly, and overall just not worth it, for anyone. 

I just need some tips on how to get out of this dark area, because it's really messing with me.

Thank you.

I too have struggled with a ton of depressive thoughts lately, its so odd to me since I've felt so good last week and nothing has actually changed since then.
Why not focus on your qualities? I, for one I'm lacking in many departments, but when I really think about it, a ton of my unique qualities pop up in my mind and the negative thoughts seem to shoot out the door afterwards.

Try and do something you really enjoy, according to Victor Velure even watching a film can be a form of meditation! Distract yourself, don't let the negativity or the circumstances take over. You're most likely a wonderful person so surround yourself with uplifting people as well as situations and ignore anyone who does not help your mood.

You could also try doing some "good deeds", I feed the stray cats around my neighbourhood and it's a really positive experience.

Exactly!

I've come to the same conclusion as well, I even thought of posting something similar to this earlier today. Nicely written, hopefully it clears up the confusion for those who apply so many techniques and complain about not getting the results they seek.

Despite any negativity around here, it's still one of the best LoA communities online and it'll definitely get better as time goes by, as well.

I'd like to thank you, Veronica, for all the work you've put in your videos and in this forum!

So a while back I decided to start caring about my image, part of the self love process.

I began thinking I could really use some aviator sunglasses.
However, my vibration on this subject was a bit fuzzy. I have a really old pair at home that I didn't want to wear but at the same time I didn't feel like getting new ones.

Recently someone told me that the Universe will always let us know what our current vibration is...

Today I was going for a walk when I notice a pair of sunglasses unattended on top of a concrete bench!

And you guessed it: aviator sunglasses.

They also showed some wear and tear and it was clear to me that someone forgot them there so I obviously didn't take them.

What's interesting is that small manifestations like these keep happening as of late which probably means I'm somewhat in alignment with my higher self.

Anyway I thought I'd share this story just so more of you take notice of the little signs and hints the Universe gives us.

Happy vibes for all of you!

TheHappinessCoach wrote:

Hi This Dude,

The more we chase the less we attract, right? When we chase we do the Universe's work but when we attract we work with the Universe. If I were you, I'd step back from the messages for a bit. I wouldn't say, 'no contact' but just step back. When you are in alignment you are very powerful but each time you speak to her you lose that and you have now created a repeat pattern of getting short answers from her. You want to rid this old vibration and you can do that by stopping the messages. 

When you do this you can focus on your own alignment and get yourself really tapped into the Universe because this way, when she does reach out to you, she will see her true authentic self reflected in you as we all do when in the presence of someone in alignment. When we meet someone in alignment we want to be with them all the time! This is because we see our source energy in them and want to see more of it so become that amazing reflection for her by working on your own true alignment and learning to stay in it. 

Much love,
Laura

The Happiness Coach
beagoodsoul.com

I see! Good to know that I'm currently doing the right thing. I've deleted the main phone app we use to communicate so that she goes out of her way to specifically contact me, this way it's a little harder for her. But if she does do this, then I'll know she really wants to talk to me. Meanwhile I'll focus on getting in alignment.

You worded it quite nicely, what you said makes perfect sense!
Thanks very much Laura, I appreciate the help!