Yes I am over her and I do not want her at all. If any part of me does, it's just to have an ego boost or easy sex...and I'm not that kinda guy. I'm focused on my own goals now.

LOA is simply a spiritual law that God created (along with the universe). Thats why I dont thank the universe or pray to it like some here do. It is a created entity as well as the laws of physics. The law of attraction is no different than the law of reaping and sowing, law of sin and death, and karma. Its one of many spiritual laws that exist. We can either use it to our advantage or not. 

Thats how I see it. I am not God nor is Neville Goddard nor is my subconscious mind or imagination. You know why? I have imagined doing evil to people...and I know that is not God nor is it love. God is above us and is connected to us spiritually but we are not him. We are created beings. 

Some disagree but I have pretty good scientific evidence for the big bang and evolution to support my case ;)

Search John Paul Jackson on Youtube. He has passed now but his videos were incredible. He specifically talks about New Age and how he went to many events they held where people flocked to him because of his "loving aura" that they wanted. He had the gift of prophecy and dream interpretation. Quite an interesting man. (And he believes in LOA as well)

It's called overlapping. It's a form of cheating and is severely frowned upon. Don't do it. End the relationship before seeking someone else. My ex did this to me and it sucked so bad. It really hurt. Treat people the way you want to be treated.

Remember, karma.

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And I agree with you as far as this being hyped up as some sort of magical practice that give you control over everything and everyone that walks the planet. I agree. I don't want to control my guy. That IS NOT what I want. I DO love him, and I think the world of him. But with saying that.. Everytime I've tried to rs or anything remotely close, I have had the tug on my heart telling me that this is not right. I either love him or I don't.. And if I do, trying to control him with "mind control" is a pretty crappy way of trying to prove to myself, him or "God"/"universe" that I do really in fact love him. I don't want to control the world, that is WAYYY too much responsibility, that I know isn't supposed to be resting on my shoulders. BUT at the same time.. I would like the opportunity to be able to chose for myself. I would like another chance.. And I've prayed to God way too much to even count.

That's much better   Listen to your inside. It's usually right.

I think we all would like another chance, but is it really for our best interest or better yet: their best interest? If you love him as you say, what if another woman gives him all he needs and is truly better for him. Would you want that for him?

I tend to look at life through a window instead of a mirror. Putting others before yourself is so much more satisfying that being concerned with only yourself and being narcissistic.

Treat others how you want to be treated. The best way to live.

Dude, I get what you are getting at. I really do. That doesn't change anything for me tho. I still want my guy back. I still want the opportunity. Ain't no other woman alive able to give him more or better for him than I am and can. PERIOD.

But I'm trying to get you to realize that is a super selfish way to live. Not only that, wanting someone back who doesn't want you is NOT love. It's attachment.

It's like forcing a puppy to stay in your lap when it

Stepping away will work wonders for you. I did it and I was so glad I did. Also, just because people say things on this forum doesn't mean they are true.

People do not reflect your vibe contrary to what most ardent New Agers believe here. There is not a shred of evidence that people are a direct reflection of your internal beliefs. They have oversimplified reality and have severely distorted the law of attraction. Other people are just as real as you are.

It's the whole "if a tree falls in a forest and no one is around, does it still make a sound?". Of course it does.

In fact the "law" of attraction should not even be considered a law. Gravity is a law, even evolution is a "theory". At best the "law" of attraction should be called the "theory of attraction". I would call it a hypothesis myself. It's so internal that it's hard to "prove" it in a scientific sense.

Develop self confidence and self esteem, pretty yourself up, and hit the gym. You will then see that YOU create what you want with respect to YOU by your thoughts that LEAD to actions. The actions change your reality. Sure prayer, feeling good, and thinking positive do help and can change the world around you but I'm a firm believer that we aren'the Jedi Knights influencing people or things with our mind. Plus, who want to carry such a burden of trying to make your own life good? I'd much rather go with the flow and just enjoy life without worrying about a so called vibration. Idk about some of you, but trying to control your own life is a nightmare. I'd rather rely on God for my strength and well being.

Practicality over New Age BS anyday for me. People disagree with me but that's fine. Enjoy your life and work hard for what you want. Leave that ex behind in your past and create a beautiful future for yourself.