Sent (blue tick in a white circle) means the message has been sent but not yet delivered or read.

Delivered (white tick in a blue circle) means the message has been delivered but not yet read.

When it changes to the persons face or avatar it means they have read them.

Also posted on Lanie's forum.
Met up with my love but now confused!!!

I'm off work on holiday and at the beginning of the week had been thinking of going for a short break to his Country as I love it but couldn't make my mind up.  The flight left the next day and I was talking to him that night and asked about a place I was thinking of going.  Long story short he asked if I wanted him to come see me so I said yeah.  He recommend a town which was closer to him so I ended up going there.  He works a lot sometimes until early hours plus has Uni but came to see me the night after I arrived and stayed over until the next afternoon then had to leave to go back to work.  He told me that when I said where I was staying he'd phoned them to find out where it was. 

When he arrived I got big hug and kisses and It was like we'd never been apart, we got on so well, even better than we have, chatted and had laughs.  He asked if I had missed him, he was smiling when he asked so I said no and laughed.  The next day before he left he started showing me photos of his family, nephews, brother, sister, mum and dad and while he was flicking through them I saw pictures of her and him (the girl I found out he was with at the same time as me).  I said are you and her still.....he didn't reply just made a grunting kind of noise and had a meh type expression. 

He said he'd try come back that night after work, he finished early hours of the morning so would have to rely on someone giving him a lift.  Next day he messaged saying sorry he couldn't get his friend to bring him.  So that was it I didn't see him again, I was only there for 3 and a bit days.

I'm so confused again as he's gone back to being quiet on me, despite us getting on so well.  I still feel that there's more for me and him and I truly believe he feels something for me.  This guy is younger and has a lot going on in his life with Uni and work etc and had been disappearing offline for hours sometimes days before

Charmed101 wrote:

We're currently not friends on Facebook, could that be the problem?

I don't get any notification when I receive a message from anyone I'm not friends with on facebook.  I didn't realise this until a few months ago when I stumbled across all these messages from guys i'd never met, they were all sat in another part of my messenger away from friends messages.  Needless to say these started not long after I started doing PW on my love lol.

Charmed If you aren't friends on facebook it could be the same for him.

Forgot to add that when I sent a message to someone not that long ago who I wasn't friends with it sat for ages with the sent but not delivered status.  I presumed the same as I said above that it went into a different part than their 'friends' messages, they eventually replied after a day.

Try not to worry about it (easier said than done I know) or try and visualise or recreate sending the message again in your head and change the outcome to what you want, that's what i'd try to do
 

ughchristina wrote:

I initiated most of the contact during that time then I decided to just stop and he eventually came to me! If I felt upset, I let myself be upset and didn't get mad at myself for doing so. Hope I could help you out in some way. Best of luck to you!

When you stopped contacting him did you still use techniques like visualising etc?  I'm like you in that I have initiated most of the contact but really have to pull back and stop and let him come to me.  How long did it take for him to contact you once you had stopped?

Thanks again for your story, stories like yours really help a lot of us on here

lovekinjal wrote:

Hahahaha.... I loved the way you mentioned me in the last line. Thank u so much for that. And as far as the timing thing is concerned, I too see it a lot. Rather, for the past one month, I keep on seeing times that ends with a twin number. To be precise, I either start anything or end anything in precisely twin minutes. The hours may be anything, but the minutes are almost always a twin. So I take it as a blessing from the universe and deduce it as a sign that the universe is trying to tell me that I have finally found my twin soul. And therefore the twin minutes keep on popping up whenever I am starting on something or ending something.
 

Hahaha you are very welcome.  You gave good advice with my last numbers question so I knew you'd be the man to help!  My minutes are always twin numbers too and the hours vary slightly.  Twin soul, don't know anything about that but I will look it up.

So overall I should take these numbers coming up again as being a good thing.