Lifesagas wrote:

No-one can tell you what to do but if it was me, i'd let it go completely and move on with my life.

Ya well it's been a year, I suppose?
If you don't wanna move on Laura, you should at least take a break. And let me tell you one thing, techniques do not get you what you want, they are used so that you can align with your desire but if it's tiring, what's the point of them techniques?!

Abe also says and I quote it, "There is nothing like a right or a wrong decision. Take a decision and make it right."

And still no one can justify murdering someone.

My point being, I believe all of us should be a little considerate towards the recipient as well. 🙂

I mean it's just so creepy how people can stoop down to any level for their selfish wants. For some reason, I cried over it.

So last night I found out something about this guy I dated back in high school for about a year. Let's call him R. So after we broke up, I was still friends with him. And then I met V (the guy I was trying to manifest back in my life, we have been together for three years)

Anywho, R still had a thing for me and he knows about LOA and all these RS slash rubbing out techniques... After we broke up, he had been doing RS on me(back in 2015)
He wanted V and I broken up cause apparently he was "in love" with me. I remember having weird thoughts and dreams about R, I even had a huge fight with V defending R, we almost broke up. But because my real with V has been based on actual and pure love, we sorted stuff out.

R got a new girlfriend and he forgot about me and I did not have any more dreams or weird thoughts about him(even though they say the effect lasts a lifetime)

I had been getting those thoughts and this urge to talk to R again, so last night when I reached out, he told me he had broken up with his girl and he wanted to get back with me so he had been doing RS on me.

I do not know if this is the right way to go about things but I was disgusted. I am sorry but I, in no way find it cute. It was creepy and heartbreaking at the same time to know that someone has been trying to break V and I apart.
According to R, he loves me so he thinks he's the only person who can keep me the happiest but it's like I don't even have a choice in this. So naturally I cut all ties with him and even when I have this urge to keep talking to him, I know what's been up and I am not going to talk to him ever again.

What do you guys think? I made the right call? It's kinda upsetting.

happyinlove wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

He seems very toxic and rude- I'm so sorry.

That's just my opinion

Agree strangely I find it funny that some people who tell me "why do you want a guy like yours" " you can do better" " get Away from this" "he sounds like a terrible guy you should attract something better " ( all paraphrasing so I guess I shouldn't put it in quotes cause it's not quotes . ) seem to defend someone who sounds awful on their end .

Your posts give off the vibes how desperate, needy, and obsessed you are and yes, I am well aware of the fact that I don't know you and only read your words; in which case you don't choose your words very carefully.
Writing "just my opinion" does not make it less offensive.
Your posts are full of "tell me what I wanna hear" whereas this one is only an example of how you should not let others affect your vibes. Harsh as it sounds but all you do is whine. So please don't compare it with your posts.