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So last night I found out something about this guy I dated back in high school for about a year. Let's call him R. So after we broke up, I was still friends with him. And then I met V (the guy I was trying to manifest back in my life, we have been together for three years)
Anywho, R still had a thing for me and he knows about LOA and all these RS slash rubbing out techniques... After we broke up, he had been doing RS on me(back in 2015)
He wanted V and I broken up cause apparently he was "in love" with me. I remember having weird thoughts and dreams about R, I even had a huge fight with V defending R, we almost broke up. But because my real with V has been based on actual and pure love, we sorted stuff out.
R got a new girlfriend and he forgot about me and I did not have any more dreams or weird thoughts about him(even though they say the effect lasts a lifetime)
I had been getting those thoughts and this urge to talk to R again, so last night when I reached out, he told me he had broken up with his girl and he wanted to get back with me so he had been doing RS on me.
I do not know if this is the right way to go about things but I was disgusted. I am sorry but I, in no way find it cute. It was creepy and heartbreaking at the same time to know that someone has been trying to break V and I apart.
According to R, he loves me so he thinks he's the only person who can keep me the happiest but it's like I don't even have a choice in this. So naturally I cut all ties with him and even when I have this urge to keep talking to him, I know what's been up and I am not going to talk to him ever again.
What do you guys think? I made the right call? It's kinda upsetting.
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I think you made the right call. I had a similar experience with someone doing RS on me except I had no thoughts about that at all but I felt quite violated when I found out what they'd been doing.
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I mean it's just so creepy how people can stoop down to any level for their selfish wants. For some reason, I cried over it.
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I don't think you should feel bad or silly for crying over it. When I found out I felt like you, I felt it was creepy and a bit of a violation but I also thought 'how DARE you? I've told you i'm not interested in you and you are so selfish that you thought you'd try and override my thoughts and opinions? And it was massively disrespectful to my boyfriend at the time and our relationship in my opinion.
Plus the idea of him trying to get into my vibrational energy visualising touching me sexually was gross.
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Lifesagas wrote:
I don't think you should feel bad or silly for crying over it. When I found out I felt like you, I felt it was creepy and a bit of a violation but I also thought 'how DARE you? I've told you i'm not interested in you and you are so selfish that you thought you'd try and override my thoughts and opinions? And it was massively disrespectful to my boyfriend at the time and our relationship in my opinion.
Plus the idea of him trying to get into my vibrational energy visualising touching me sexually was gross.
Actually I cried because it was gross. I felt weird about it. It just sounds so wrong to me, trying to get into someone else's personal space.