YesIWILL wrote:

think im going to stop posting for a while. thanks guys...

My suggestion for anyone more than a month into trying to manifest a specific person is to take a break from forums and social media altogether. I've done it a few times for weeks or months here and there and it's made me feel so much better. Some people like a "support system", but once you let go of the need for support you find strength in yourself. I hope you take that advise.

RS is definitely training wheels. You use it to feel connected and live in the end. Once you feel good with it you stop and let go. If you want to restart because you're finally in a good place, great. I do agree that you're too attached. The reason I say this is I've been following your story for a while now. Recently you said you cancelled plans with him because you were waiting for him to come to you. If I remember right, you wound up meeting up with him anyway and got no further than him admitting he's miserable, which you already knew. He's still in this miserable relationship and you're still available. If you're going to start over, it may be a good idea do start with 30 days of no contact before attempting RS... and that means avoid anything where mutual friends invite him. Then start the RS after you're completely detached. You may also want to refrain from dating anyone else during that time, either. It sounds like you feel like you need a relationship and to surround yourself with mutual friends. Your world can't revolve around him. Branch out a little in that 30 days. Find a new hobby. Do some things for you where you can meet new people and learn something new about yourself. He's not going to forget you, sweetheart. Know that he won't and fall off the grid for a while.

Amyh24 wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

Sweetheart, you keep saying "I thought this was supposed to work", but you're missing how it works still.



You're still asking. That fear is holding you back. Let go and move on. I watched a video from Dan Rasiostyle the other day and I finally got a clear answer about when you're supposed to stop visualizing and let it work on its own: Once you see the vision clearly, you stop. It means you've set your intention clearly without any confusion about what you want. It's time to believe it and move on.


Let's say "**** it" together. If it doesn't feel good, it's not right. Why torture ourselves?

Do you have a link to the Dan Rasiostyle video?
 

https://youtu.be/HESgsRPHeVI

Cynthia wrote:

Selfloveiskey wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

You're not missing anything not knowing. 😂😂😂

Hahahaha ok lol

 
I've googled it. It's an unhealthy-looking breakfast meal with a lot of different components that looks super fattening.

LMAO! You guys are focusing on the most random part of that post! I don't think I've ever eaten at Denny's outside of after a couple of loooong nights at the bar, but I do remember that looking crazy tempting when I needed something greasy to help me sober up! My twenties were fun!

It's very clear that you do love her. You are angry and hurt and I think rightfully so. She really confused the hell out of you! You didn't know where you stood or what she wanted. It's quite unfair and you do have reason to be upset.

I want to put a different spin on this... have you ever thought maybe you're too good for her? I mean, don't you think you deserve someone who is sure about you and not someone who would settle for you or treat you as a backup plan or a rebound?

I do think you romanticize her. There were great moment,s yes, but it sounds like you spent a lot of this in total confusion. Why would you want that? Of course you can change this. You can use Neville Goddard's revision technique to heal these problems. You can Ho'oponopono to forgive yourself and her. You can do anything once you're dispassionate about it and let it go. But, just for fun... why not start making a list of everything you do want from a relationship? All the feelings you had for her, but reciprocated and with certainty? Whether you manifest it from her or someone else doesn't matter. You deserve to be loved and treated well. We all do. Why this one who didn't see your worth when she had you?  I'm way overstepping here, but I think you can do better. I think holding onto her is doing you much more harm than good.