Cynthia wrote:

How is this a success story, apart from having contact with this person again after a long time, contact that has led nowhere, where nothing had changed in the interim, and which has left you feeling hurt all over again and saying that you want nothing more to do with the person? (That all could still be changed if you wanted it to be.)

I went back and read your lengthy story from 2015 or 2016, and this outcome was inevitable with all of that letting go, vibration, seeing signs, and using social media posts as a gauge crap. Signs follow, they don't precede, and visualising and trying to make yourself feel positive is not going far enough. You stated that you had been 'really reading up on Neville'. If you would have followed his advice and had faith in it and persisted long enough, the outcome would have been very different. When Neville wanted to marry his second wife, he lived in the end in his imagination of having the marriage with her just the way he wanted it to be until it happened in the outside world. It's the feeling of having the relationship already and making it as real as possible in the imagination that is the important thing. Imagination plus faith. I did the same thing myself, long before I ever heard of Neville, and was married for a very long time, and now I'm doing exactly the same thing with my current SP. This does not mean obsessing over the person, by the way. It wasn't the sole focus in Neville's or in my life. What you've described doing is more like trying to hit a ball whilst your back is turned on it, and with stating numerous times that you didn't care I don't see how any other outcome could have been expected.

I was simply stating my experience and how, over time, I just no longer had interest in my person. It was a success: I manifested contact which is something that I wanted and I could've even met up with him, but it just no longer felt right. All the LOA work before started to feel obsessive to me and I bec

I recently had a crush on the guy whose apartment is right above me. I wanted to manifest at least becoming his friend. I used to just pass him in the hallway and briefly talk to him. I was pining after him and wanted to ask him to hang out but he always seemed standoffish and like he was in a hurry. Well, flashforward a few weeks: HE was asking ME for my number. A few weeks after that we hung out and now we're friends. Wrote about it in this post: http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=7511

Basically I just kept telling myself it was all going to work out. Even when I'd go weeks without seeing him, I just still believed even when it was super difficult. A visualized a little bit, but nothing super intense. Anything's possible. Let the universe surprise you.

Posted this in the "need alignment" section of the forum but now things have turned out. Head on over if you want to hear a cool story:

http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?pid=59478#p59478

Hey, so I used to be on this forum a lot and now I'm back trying to attract a specific person. We'll call him S. So S is this hot guy who lives in my apartment building who a few months back I started noticing around and definitely thought he was hot, my type and might possibly be into guys. Wasn't really attached to him, but definitely wanted to find out more about him. We'd pass each other in the halls and smile but nothing more. Finally, one day we had a fire alarm go off (it was just some kind of malfunction) and we both were outside and we got to talking and talked for a while. I was super happy that this "incident" had happened b/c I knew it was LOA at work. Still, I let go and went about my life. We would continue to run into each other in the hall, sometimes not talking much, sometimes pleasantries, sometimes longer conversations about things in the apartment. One night I hooked up with this other guy who it turns out goes to the same med school as S (the med school is right across from our apartment) and he knew of S but doesn't think he's into guys. "He's just friendly". I really think is though. I have a feeling from the way he says "hi" or "good to see you" (which is something I don't normally say to people I casually know from my apartment). Eventually, after one or two more good conversations I would like to ask him to a beer and see where things go from there. If it turns out he is straight then that's still cool b/c at least I'll have a new friend.

But now here's the tricky part. The last time I talked to him he told me he lives on the second floor, last door on the right. Well, I live on the first floor, last on the right. I know the way the units are constructed one on top of the other and there's a 99% chance he lives directly above me (I also have some other evidence to believe this is true). Problem is: I can hear him walking around above me and it kind of drives me crazy. I can't hear him talk or anything like that, but the creaks the floors m

MIS wrote:

Hi All,
Seems like a lot of new people are here just want to share a few pointers.

I was also here wanting to attract A. I did lots of work. Self love/ grateful practices and what not. Only to find him on tinder 4 months later found by one of my friend. I was devasted to say the least. I put it in so much work and yet he was on tinder while all the past interests everybody contacted me at some point! Since I was new to LOA, I did not know that was an echo, I let it get to me and as you would know he became more distanced from me. But I also told myself, Im not going to pursue him any longer and I decided to practice my work not for him, but for myself! I mean there were so many times i felt good while doing them so went back to it .

I met B randomly some night. We hit off very well. The most amazing part of this story. He was everything I was looking for in A. The universe is amazing when it works its magic. I had so many deja-vu moments. Whatever I wanted to do with A, B will suggest/ say it to me word by word. A while of getting to know B , it dawned me that OMG, that few months I was looking to attract A, I actually lost myself. I was so focused on him.I forgot myself and got pulled into something I did not even realise I was doing. B and I are having such wonderful moments and Im so thankful cause the universe did deliver it to me. Everything that I asked! How amazing is that?!
Funny thing is, When I finally got myself back, i barely thought of A. When I do, I give thanks for our short experience together. B has mutual friends with A. 8 or 10 months later, B hears that A regrets letting me go and he realised he fucked up. He tried contacting me a few times , I refused to text back. He is still on my FB though he likes every **** of mine and comments on them something which he never use to do. But I do not want him back not because Im arrogant or I want to prove him a point but because I now know first hand, the universe amazing powers. I know how ha

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