If you read Lanies forum regularly you will see that it often does produce results in getting the person to say what you want them to say, however the persons behaviour does not seem to back up what they say so the results seem to be superficial, if however the person focuses more on self love then the person gets far better results!
I personally believe that free will does exist unlike the previous poster.

Lol this is a discussion forum so if I want to share my opinion I will. Maybe others would like to debate or share their opinions and that is the very nature of a forum, you don't get to control other peoples responses

I don't agree that we attract everything into our lives, in that case you're attracting a terrible father for your daughter, I don't personally believe that it's possible and that your thoughts can have such a negative impact on her other parents attitude towards her.  How come all over the world there are mothers with terrible attitudes towards their childrens fathers but yet those fathers step up to the plate and be good dads to their children, I refuse to believe that someones underlying fears or issues can have such a negative effect on another person (i.e a childs) life.

Yes I believe we can attract negativity ourselves and even leaving aside the law of attraction almost anyone will tell you that people will treat you the way you deserve to be treated so if you are in a relationship where you accept anything less than you truly deserve then that is what you get, if you have low self esteem there is a good chance you will meet someone who takes advantage of that. If you value yourself and know your worth there is a high chance that you won't settle for anything less than that and have a high chance of attracting partners who treat you well, of course that is not always the case and some women who are confident and strong end up with abusive partners who destroy their self worth, I don't personally believe that people always attract that.

While I feel we can definitely attract people with negative traits and sometimes influence or encourage that negativity or bad treatment I also firmly believe that everyone else around us has as many thoughts, desires, issues, problems etc. as we do and are fully, living, breathing people, not just people we have conjured up in our realities with our own thoughts, therefore we do not cause all their bad behaviour and we are not to blame if they have negative personality characteristics.

 

I don't understand this, I thought all pairs of twin flames were on their own individual journeys?

I agree that you shouldn't think of him or dating right now and concentrate on yourself but for the times when he pops into your head or this issue pops into your head don't tell yourself you will have to settle if you can't have him.