I will say this. If you read my posts from years ago I tried manifesting my sp back with the law of attraction rather than assumption. I had a post saying I moved on from her. I really did because that was my intention and my reality manifested me moved on.
Fast forward to my current situation. I created this new relationship and you want to know what happened? I took my same self concept into this relationship and guess what. I got the same outcome. The only difference between that situation and my current one is I'm doing to work to change who I am in relationships and what love means to me.

No one to change but self.

Have you read all of nevilles books?

Settle in for a lengthy read.

Well it's been a while since I've been here. I had to take a break from it all for a bit. I had to move on with my life because I didn't see anything change. I know we're not to look for it, but I was obsessing and you just can't help when you're in that state.

Anyway that's not the success part. I decided part of moving on was to message all my exes and tell them I was sorry. I noticed the same patterns appearing in all my relationships. I would be happy and content for a while but the relationship stopped being new and I acted cold and distant. A girl of mine told me I wanted something till I had it. She was right. It took this journey to realize I was putting my happiness ultimately in the hands of another. Anyway I apologized to the girl I'm getting back with. I wasn't in a high vibration at the time but I didn't care. I messaged her saying I was sorry for not giving her the attention she deserved. Reasons why I acted the way I did. This and that. I told her I didn't expect anything from her anymore not even a reply. Just left it alone.

Of course as you can guess I didn't get a reply, but that was fine. I was moving on with my life anyway. Four days later I get a message late at night. From her. She was apologizing to me for not showing she cared when she should have. She told me I'm a really good person. That I find success in life. I tell you the universe gives you things when you'll most appreciate them. I was blown away I just stared at the message for a good while. Just in shock.

I was still moving on though. I didn't want to get attached because that just led to sadness. I still love that woman to death, but I have to do me. Fast forward about a month now. My boss needed me to work the other day just for a couple hours. I get to work and of all the places they could have put me they put me next to her. Of course I didn't look really far into it. You know moving on with my life. I had a blast with her. We talked almost the

They'll hate you as much as you think they do. I thought my girl hated me when we broke up and guess what. I was right. I saw evidence all around me, I'd hear how she would complain about me. I got bent out of shape about it for a while and recently I've decided not to care anymore. I decided to let her go because I'm sick of giving away my happiness. She sent me a heartfelt apology the other night.

Case in point. Learn how to not care about your thoughts so much. Good or bad just not care at much. Care about how you feel independent of thought.

Sunny is right. Listen to this and try to soak it all up. You'll never heal until you accept what has happened. Also don't accept what has happened and heal just to reach that "now I'll attract her back" state. Don't do it for anything at all. Don't even do it for yourself. Just do it.
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