Congrats girl!!! So happy for you :-)!!

That view is from a non LOA perspective and so if you entertain that belief then that is probably what will happen for you... There are people who have stayed friends with an ex and still reunited too.

From an LOA perspective, its ok for you to be in contact with your ex if it doesn't interfere with your vibrational work towards the relationship. It can sometimes be hard to ignore the current reality and live as if when you are reminded of the current situation everytime you talk to them.

So, if you can talk to your ex and still stay in alignment/not develop resistant thoughts then you're good.

Susiewoo wrote:

What a lovely post!!! Thank you for sharing it!

Thank you for reading ! xox

GirlyGirl111 wrote:

Thank you for this wonderful post! It's awesome 💓💕

It truly resonates with me because this is how I feel now. I'm working on just being happy and enjoying the gift of life. I'm putting the focus on my life and it feels really good.

You're right...we do deserve to be pined after and sought out. They should be missing us as well. I've come to the point where I don't need him either. It would be awesome if he comes back but I don't need him to come back in order for me to be happy and have a fulfilling life. We deserve the very best because we have such big hearts full of love....who wouldn't want that? ;-)

That's so wonderful!! You sound like you're in a great place, I'm sure amazing things will come your way . Its so true, we have big hearts full of love and anyone who can't recognise or doesn't know how to appreciate that is the one that is most at loss here - wouldn't wanna be them ;-) 

Scarlet Angel wrote:

This is so true.. This is how we all should be

 xox

So I'm back from holiday and I feel like a new woman! I just wanted to share with you an update on how I'm feeling.

Before my hol, I was on an emotional rollercoaster.. I would be vibing high and then a few days later would come crashing down. I got fed up of this to be honest and I decided to use my holiday as a break away from thinking about my guy and to focus on me and enjoying life. 

This was the best thing I could have done for myself! During the break, I realised that actually I had pushed myself off of the pedestal and forgot who I am. I had let everything overwhelm me and forgot the most important thing - to love myself. I realised that actually, my guy was pretty damn lucky to have someone loving and caring for him like I do.

When you think about it, all these people are really blessed to have people like us not giving up on them and wanting to love them. Fight for them. Stand by them. Whether they want it or not, aren't they lucky to have someone that want to love and be with them like we do? To have someone that cares enough to go to lengths to try make it work? Some people don't even get to experience love. Doesn't that make us pretty amazing? Doesn't that mean that actually our love is pretty special and anyone would be lucky to have it?

I started to focus more on the qualities I have... What I bring to the table. I wrote it in a list. This made me see that actually I am a catch (if I may say so myself ;-) lol) and I found myself back on that pedestal. I started to ask myself why I should be chasing after someone who may not even deserve me. I know who I am and what I have to offer, my guy should be the one working out how to get me back! lol. I shifted the focus from him, our relationship and why I "need" him and instead put the spotlight on me - where it belongs. I realised I don't need him. I can be happy with or without him. All I need is ME because I am the only thing that will always be constant! Yes, I still would like to be with my guy BU