fizzy wrote:

excalibar wrote:

Along those lines do we still need to imagine for all that time or until we feel like we don’t need too. Also, does the visualization need to be crystal clear? I think I saw you say it doesn’t really need to be clear because you know what your intention is.

Excalibar, if you haven’t yet, I think you should go watch the YouTube channel ‘Create Your Future’. Just change your mental diet. These small details you are constantly worried about really aren’t important at all. If you actually take the time to watch the videos on that channel, you will see how simple everything actually is and hopefully stop the constant worrying.

I know who that is she’s the girl who  makes videos on making intentions.

Aquilina wrote:

Cynthia wrote:

 
If you don't want to imagine marriage as the end result there's no reason why you should do. I'm a marrying kind of person and so is my SP, so that's the end result I want. What I mostly imagine myself is the two of us being together and both of us feeling happy and him looking very happy and totally in love with me and him telling me the things I want to hear and me replying in kind, and also both of us wearing wedding rings, and this might sound silly to some, but they have each other's names on them sometimes.

I know I told somebody this recently, I don't remember who, but that time when Neville wanted an honourable discharge from the army, he made it sound like he had only imagined it on one occasion because he fell asleep and had a dream where a hand came down and crossed out 'disapproved' and wrote 'approved' and a voice told him that it was done and to do nothing. He stated that he did nothing after that. I know he meant for sure that he took no outward action and I also got the impression he felt no more need to imagine it. If you feel the same way about your desire, I think that's your answer.

Okay, so I felt like that scene was done at the time, but haven't been feeling like it's done recently. I'm going to focus on revision as a priority but I'll keep imagining being with him until I feel no need to think about any of it anymore. I mean, that scene was so real but I feel like my mind isn't convinced with the reality of the whole thing so I have to carry on. I probably would marry him and have thought about it a lot but I'll leave it out for now, can always change it later.

How do you feel like it’s done? Is it just a gut feeling type of thing? I think I may be at that point with my “sp”. Please respond, thank you.

Cynthia wrote:

Hiya, It doesn't matter what I or anybody else thinks. What do you think? Your own beliefs are super important and really all that matters. Long before I ever heard of Neville I imagined being married to a certain person and imagined wearing a wedding ring, and I did marry him, and we were married for a long time, many years. It was long distance with minimal contact, perhaps one snail mail letter from each of us to the other per month or so and a couple of brief phone calls in total like a birthday message. I did leave out some important things, leaving them to chance, which was a mistake that I wouldn't repeat now that I know better. We're divorced now, and it was a few years after this that I discovered Neville, although I'd read other authors on the subject since the age of 15. I prefer Neville because he didn't put limitations on anything like most of the others did, and the others mostly at least strongly implied that this is something you only do when you want something, not that we are all creating our lives all the time whether we are consciously aware of this or not or that imagination is what is reality because that is what is creating our outward experiences that people call reality.

I don't like the word 'preach' in this context, but I do my best to practise what I preach, and if I didn't know and believe that Neville's teachings worked, I wouldn't be advocating them, but you've got to have faith. Imagination plus faith. As I mentioned in another post, my current SP is somebody I haven't spoken with for over 2 years. He's cut me off 4 times, the longest time of which was 4 years and 4 months. I didn't even decide until this year that I really did want a relationship with him, before then I kept changing my mind back and forth, so this year I have been doing exactly what Neville himself did, what I did before but with improvements, and I've been called 'delusional' by someone who doesn't believe I'll ever hear from him again. I took that

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