Things have gotten easier for me, each day I'm more happier and I enjoy work and laugh so much with my coworkers. Sometimes there I times I resort to my old ways of thinking but it's so much easier to "snap out of it".

The specific person I first wanted to be with I stopped talking all together mid January, he wasn't good enough for me and I deserved to be treated better and respected. I feel free and so much better than what I went through with him.

I'm looking to attract this man I've liked for 10 years but I'm not too focused on it. I'm making myself happy first and focusing on traveling, he or someone better will come along on my journey.

Wags is with all the other good boys and girls now, sorry for your loss I understand what you went through, but Wags will always be with you in your heart.

❤

jenbeckley1992 wrote:

I hope you don't mind me telling you guys this but you're all I can talk to and this isn't loa related.
I'm 24 and still a virgin.
Do you think this is weird because a lot guys do.
I think this is the reason my ex left me without saying anything.
I told him I was a virgin the last time we saw each other and he thank you for being honest but then I've not seen him since.
Why is being a virgin a huge turn off for guys.
This is also the reason why my other exes have left me

I'm 23 female and also a virgin and honestly sex isn't really a priority in my life, it hasn't been, I have other things I rather focus on. And where I live and grew up the guys here aren't that great, personality wise, and I'd rather not be initmate with them.

I can't answer why it's a turn off for guys, but I know for a fact that's not the case for all guys. So my advice is, don't worry about it and don't focus on it. Being a virgin isn't that big of a deal unless you make it one.
 

Sanshi wrote:

Listen closely to your invisible thoughts. What do you hear? What are your words implying? That is their potency. What do you want? Name it and rearrange the structure of your mind to imply you no longer desire it, because you already have it!

 
How do you suggest to rearrange your mind? Because I understand that I can say I want this and say In my mind that I have it and have the feelings of already having it, but I know I'm doing this because I don't already have it "physically", which is what my words are implying.

I understand what the concept is and what to do, I'm just unsure of how to execute it.

Can't help you out with since I'm not sure what it means, but I'll tell you that I'm in the same boat. His name is literally every where for me, some one will say it in a video, I'll see it written down, see different "versions" of his name spelled. I used to freak out and be like WHY!!! especially since I've been on and off of letting him go or not. And right now we're on good terms but I told him I need space to work on myself and he is supportive and hoping I get better. so now when I do see his name I just smile and say "hey that's his name" and try to have just positive thoughts since I'm used to being destructive with my thoughts.

I wish I could give you a solid answer as to why it happens, maybe we're more aware since that's his name, maybe the Universe is saying don't give up, maybe we're giving ourselves the situations in which their name would pop up "randomly". What ever it is, you give meaning to it. I'd suggest giving it a positive meaning since there is nothing wrong with that. (: