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Sex talk Please help
I hope you don't mind me telling you guys this but you're all I can talk to and this isn't loa related.
I'm 24 and still a virgin.
Do you think this is weird because a lot guys do.
I think this is the reason my ex left me without saying anything.
I told him I was a virgin the last time we saw each other and he thank you for being honest but then I've not seen him since.
Why is being a virgin a huge turn off for guys.
This is also the reason why my other exes have left me
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- rpt.sunnymist
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Re: Sex talk Please help
jenbeckley1992 wrote:
I hope you don't mind me telling you guys this but you're all I can talk to and this isn't loa related.
I'm 24 and still a virgin.
Do you think this is weird because a lot guys do.
I think this is the reason my ex left me without saying anything.
I told him I was a virgin the last time we saw each other and he thank you for being honest but then I've not seen him since.
Why is being a virgin a huge turn off for guys.
This is also the reason why my other exes have left me
Nothing is weird jenbeckley1992 i am male 24 & i am a virgin too.
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Re: Sex talk Please help
I hope you don't mind me telling you guys this but you're all I can talk to and this isn't loa related.
I'm 24 and still a virgin.
Do you think this is weird because a lot guys do.
I think this is the reason my ex left me without saying anything.
I told him I was a virgin the last time we saw each other and he thank you for being honest but then I've not seen him since.
Why is being a virgin a huge turn off for guys.
This is also the reason why my other exes have left me
I'm 23 female and also a virgin and honestly sex isn't really a priority in my life, it hasn't been, I have other things I rather focus on. And where I live and grew up the guys here aren't that great, personality wise, and I'd rather not be initmate with them.
I can't answer why it's a turn off for guys, but I know for a fact that's not the case for all guys. So my advice is, don't worry about it and don't focus on it. Being a virgin isn't that big of a deal unless you make it one.
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Stop focusing on that. Its a limiting belief. If you continue to think that was the reason why he left, he'll never come back.
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It's a detour sign for guys that only want that one thing. But, it's nothing weird or wrong with it. I was older. My only regret of giving that first time for someone that I didn't love me.
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There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, there's more to love and relationships than sex. If you think people are leaving you for being a virgin then that's the reason they do. Reality is merely a mirror of your thoughts after all. There's always someone who understands so don't allow it to be a bigger deal than it needs to be.
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My exboyfriend Made a Huge deal about me NOT being a virgin. He Wanted to be the first.
She believed she could, so she did.
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I actually find it attractive to be with a virgin. It's kinda cute. It's all about preferences, but if you focus on that being a roadblock it will forever be a roadblock.
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I quite like it 
Okay so I am from India and till date you will find majority of the poeple Virgins till they get married lolzzzzzzzzz So be cool about your virginity. Its not like a "factor" for a guy to choose u or not. Be happy with how or what you are
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