LaughBella14 wrote:

I know you guys are probably going to think I'm a lunatic lol, but upon further reflection, because I actually posted this yesterday but decided to move it to a section of the forum that it fits better, I have more questions to add.

Simply, and I'm not sure if this is straying from loa, is it normal to feel like you may never find anyone as good as your ex again? Aside from the way we broke up, my ex was pretty much perfect during the relationship, & everything I ever wanted in a guy. He checked just about every mark on my mental checklist of what I wanted in a relationship. I felt really lucky & blessed to have him, and people would always tell me how lucky I was bc everyone knows him as a wonderful guy. The only issues we ever had involved his family, & that was pretty much what led up to him leaving me in the first place, and also what I think pushed him onto the other girl, besides my thoughts of course.
So if I feel like I can't have him, is it normal to feel like no one will ever be as good as he was? I have never met anyone like him honestly. While he wasn't 100% perfect, as no one is, I really thought he was the man I would be marrying.

So if I decided I wasn't confident enough to attract him back, or get this other guy I'm experimenting on, or just don't know what I want in general, how do I manifest someone just like my ex, with all his qualities that made him such a wonderful boyfriend to me? I prefer him, it's just as much as I released the resistance about the baby, I haven't about being able to attract him back. Its just been so long since I have heard from him!!!

It's normal to feel like no one will be good as the ex from a non- loa perspective, but it still simply is not true as someone just as good or even better always comes along in my experience.
If you work on keeping your vibration up and put the focus on yourself. Affirm in your mind that You are the prize not ex or anyone else and  believe it for sure, then b

Yep just do it
There is no problem. Forget what happened in the past and believe he's yours with no maybes. It's just our minds that create the problems .

I've heard of this, but a method which is a bit different.  Wearing a rubber band around your wrist and when a negative thought comes into your head you pull it and snap and immediately replace with a positive thought

It's possible but the only problem with the time limit is that it may cause resistance. Put the intention out there and then let it go. So if it's a specific person who you would like to propose, you can visualise the scene (the proposal or even the wedding in detail), then allow by trusting and knowing, so there is no need to worry.
With RS you can use it for that person to propose to you. I don't understand how it backfires, only if you have had a lot of resistance. 

Oasiscalm wrote:

Here is the transcript for the wisdom Bashar shared

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FULL TRANSCRIPT: We recognize these ideas. These basic categories to be the sequential steps necessary for the manifestation of physiological reality as you prefer it.

Number One: VISION. Vision, Vision, Vision. Simply meaning, have an image. Have an idea. Have a dream. Have a wish. Have a vision, have a picture, of "what you say you want." Now, again, many of you have heard these ideas, expressed in a number of ways. And it's alright if you have heard them before, and certainly we have discussed them before in a number of ways and in great detail. But for now, again, this is just a simplification, any word can do as long as it IS representative of the concept of 'having some initial concept or vision' that you want.

Number Two: DESIRE. And this goes hand and hand with the idea of excitement. The thing that you see that you say you want must be accompanied as a strong energy. A strong "E"motion. "Desire" is as good a term, for now, as any. Because that energizes the vision, literally "pumps", as you say, energy into it. "E"-"MOTION". "Energy In Motion". Desire. STRONG. INTENSE. ALL CONSUMING, Desire. For the manifestation of that Idea. Of that Reality. Of that Thing.

Third: BELIEF. You must know, and you must explore, and you must examine, within yourself, that you have the BELIEF that it is possible to manifest this thing. You have the BELIEF that you deserve this thing. Whatever it is that you get in touch with within the concepts of your definitions of "LIFE", your BELIEFs, are what are going to allow this thing to be possible. If you don't BELIEVE you are capable of it, if you don't BELIEVE you deserve it, it isn't going to Manifest no matter how much Desire you may have, no matter how much Vision you may have, no matter how clear that Vision may be. If you do not believe it's possible, it can not Manifest. So get in touch with the idea of what you DO believe, and find out what you would

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