RR.. if you look for harsh and rude, you get back harsh and rude. People aren't being rude because they are asses.. its because that's what you INSPIRE FROM WITHIN THEM.

If you believe in God, then you are familiar with the idea that we create through God.   It is through God's expression that you create, as through your living form, he will translate your deepest desires or beliefs into physical reality.  If you do not foster such belief in a God, then you may use whatever expression of higher power that resonates with you. For me it is source, or simply the universe. 

When you understand that we live in a holographic universe, you begin to comprehend that everything and everybody around you comes FROM you and is brought forth into this world through you. They come into your life as an expression of your values, your beliefs, and your fears. Can you appreciate the utter perfection in that? 
You have the power of God or the universe if you will, right at your fingertips. To command into existence those things you believe to be true and real. The magnificence of this astonishes me daily. 
And most importantly, the freedom in understanding this concept is immense.  If all of the people in my life are simply a mirror to my soul,  then I have full creative control over what they reflect to me, or what I elicit from them. If my focus is simply to love and adore what I can about each angel who touches my life in some way.. then can it bring anything to me but richness and wonder and joy? 

Just what if it is true,  and every person in my life is very deliberately summonsed by myself,  in order to show me who I am?  If I see my daily interactions as an opportunity to appreciate them,  am I not in turn bestowing that appreciation back upon myself? We know that what we give will return to us twofold. Is it not then the ultimate gift to ourselves, to release kindness and loving joy out into the ethers? Knowing that whatever we are brave enough to put out there will certainly return to us multiplied? 

It is common human perspective to want the world to feed us unlimited supplies of acceptance and support and love. We feel that we need t

InLakEsch wrote:

Thanks for this it's so true too. I'm finally getting the concepts of loa. Though sometimes the doubt creeps in because I'm still new. I have to reaffirm that my reality is valid and it doesn't matter what the external is saying. All that matters is in my mind.

 
You can challenge that by practicing your manifesting though. Start small and train yourself to believe. Manifesting is simple, and we do it all day every day without realising. Try to acknowledge all of the small things you have manifested, and deliberately set out to bring little things to yourself each day. You will then have all the proof you need to believe in LOA.

I've discovered along my path that love can appear to be utterly difficult.. painful even. While this is just something that we choose to believe, in the moment you are choosing it you very much FEEL that pain. It feels completely real. We have grown as a society to attach SO many negative connotations to love.. Like unrequited love. Impossible love. Love gone wrong. Love is pain. Love is the greatest tragedy of all time. Lol. We do that to ourselves unknowingly, and then we create situations in our life that reflect exactly those notions. Love goes wrong, it feels painful, and the world makes us feel miserable. You can see clearly that the feeling we invoke when we think of "love" is often actually fear.

With that in mind, let's look at LOA and love. Most of you are here attempting to attract love to you. But when you think love, you probably feel a punch in the stomach. You probably feel that yearning heaviness in your chest, because you have learnt to associate love with despair. I'm going to share with you something that helped me tremendously in overriding those feelings of "pain", and it worked again and again until now I simply feel love. I no longer feel love as something unattainable, unsustainable, or out of my reach. Once you understand the weight you have unconsciously placed on the meaning of "love", you'll be able to unravel that mess and clear your path for some new possibilities to open up for you.

If I were to ask you "do you love him?" You will likely respond with "omg, YES, I love him BUT HE...... blah blah blah...." You attach a bunch of extra crap that weighs your love down, and pretty much cancels it out. See what I mean? "I adore her, but I WISH........" Off you go again, with a completely conditional argument that debunks your "love" entirely!

There's a way around this though, and it's about honing in on gratitude instead. Take love out of the equation, because love to most of us equals messy. Instead go for this question... "What do I

I don't see it as confusing whatsoever? What are u all confused about? The thoughts you think turn into beliefs you hold. And your beliefs vibrate out into the universe and create your future. If your vibration is clear and high and you are feeling happy each day, what you want will manifest. If you're miserable and needy and despairing, then you clearly don't believe you can attract whatever you want. So you have 2 options. Either work on your limiting beliefs by challenging them and overriding them, or simply by living in the moment with a vibe of contentment and eagerness about a new and brighter future unfolding. It makes perfect sense, where are you all tripping up?