Please stop saying it isn't working as you are delaying it. I am also guilty of this sometimes  but this is only keeping our desires away from us. Try not to think of 3rd party. Say affOrmations (not affirmations).. why is he so in love with me? Why do we have such a blissful loving relationship? Why does he desire me so much? etc.
And stop talking to your friends about him. My best friend thinks I am not really into my guy anymore as I stopped talking about him with her. She is positive and wants us to be together but she doesn't understand LOA. 
It is better not to talk about our desires. 

Berry wrote:

And just so people don't think I'm being negative for the sake of it. I'm talking from genuine experience.

The disappointment, false hope, energy used has contributed to my depression more than it has helped me to heal. I have been on suicide forums all day. I am truly fed up of it all and don't want others to waste time.

Wow...so negative. Just coz you weren't successful and didn't work on yourself to first love yourself doesn't mean it doesn't work. LOA is real. Anything is possible. If you are depressed and suicidal coz of another person then obviously you didn't work on first loving yourself and enjoying life and having fun. Sounds like you weren't living from the end and relying on someone else to bring you joy and happiness. This isn't how loa works. 
Please learn to love yourself first and have fun on your own. And please don't discourage others. So many success stories. Listen to Agnes Vivarelli also. Without self love you won't succeed. 
Never ever give up on your dreams but also don't focus on your dreams 24/7. Go out and enjoy life and be happy.
When did we start loving someone else more than we love ourselves to give another person so much power and ownership over our lives?!

 

I totally understand now. Thank you. Exactly, at first you are happy with getting what you want and maybe feel excited but after a few days it just feels normal. 

Cynthia wrote:

PandaKoalaBearsForever wrote:

Hello Fellow Manifesters,

Omg, I am so heart broken right now. I was Manifesting my Specific person and we were doing so well, I Affirmed, Visualized, got these excited feelings and senses.I was Meditating, I was getting amazing signs and Angel Numbers, then all of a sudden my specific person I was Manifesting a relationship with emailed me and said he wanted to be with his ex who had cheated on him.

I don't know what happened, I don't know what the Universe is saying

Forget about 'amazing signs and angel numbers.' That means nothing. Neither does feeling excited. The feeling that Neville talked about was not emotional, it was the feeling of having your desire right now, believing that you have it right now. You also have to give it enough time and disregard any current outer conditions that contradict your desire. There is no universe outside yourself. The universe is you.
 

I still don't get what Neville means by that. What feelings should one have about having the desire right now? I know that we need to just believe and have faith and go about our day and don't have fears and have fun and be happy with the now. But, that is what I am doing but I don't feel as if I am in the relationship I want or job that i want. I do enjoy life and believe I will get what I want and I watch my thoughts and self talk but the feeling part I still find it harder to grasp. 
 

Right..we can influence others based on how we perceive them...assume negative and you get negative.

As for my so someone told me that my circumstances are really difficult coz of the 3rd party and  my sp's kids ☹. However, i don't want to give up on my desire.