Sanshi , sorry you are confused, but your response has confused me more.  We talk about the universe frequently in LOA.  I appreciate the time you put into your response though.

Oasis...thank you I do feel more at peace now that I have decided to "move on"...Part of it was a conscious decision, part of it was a natural progression.  I guess Im just surprised at myself ...Im also surprised that I could put energy into a new person but it doesn't feel bad to do so.  Abraham Hicks once talked about that in her you tube and I relistened.  Yes, you will get attention from other men when you are positive and put good things into your vortex....and release the "resistance".  I decided that my ex will come back if he comes back and I can't make it happen.  I can also enjoy dating a new person.  Thanks for talking about "split energy" though, i will be careful not to do that.

 

that is wonderful...good work

HI there, just a  quick update.  We talked two different nights for two hours at a time. There was some crying, anger and then a change in conversation and laughter.  He has been angry at me and that is why he hasn't reached out..what he did tell me is that he THINKS ABOUT ME EVERY DAY....I accredit that to LOA.  I truly believe our story isn't over, but for now Im laying low.  He did not ask to see me and I am being patient.  I am going back to focusing on myself, its easy to fall back into old patterns.....

So I've been trying to manifest contact with ex.  It started with text messaging.  Last night it was actuallyover the phone but it wasn't really what I had hoped for.  There was a lot of arguing, and ex saying that he won't apologize for how he broke up with me, and there was finger pointing and blame.  The conversation then turned to a better place and we sort of caught up on what was going on in our lives.  He said that despite everything it was good talking to me and hearing my voice.  But, there was a lot of crappy texts that happened after that phone call.  Finally I told him that this wasn't serving me.  Im not really sure now what to think or do .  Was that the manifestation that I was working so hard for all these months because it doesn't feel like it.  Still, it was good to finally speak my mind and now I do have some sense of closure.  I still want a reconciliation but not like I did.....Im releasing it I guess.  Is this what "letting go" means?  Help me please.....

Majka, I've been where you are right now and sometimes I still fall back to it...I never sent a ton of messages but i was besides myself in heartbreak.  You need to do the 25 day challenge and really, I mean REALLY stick to the no contact rule, thats for yourself.  You just don't know it now but that is the best thing that you can do given the situation.  If this person wants space you are not solving anything by not giving it to them.........time to focus on you, raise your happiness level, your vibration.....this isn't magic or voo foo, this is about being positive and happy and that energy will bring good things to yoiu.