Actually you're right, i had resentment and stuff unresolved.  but after our two hour conversation I told him that i was no longer going to think about the past, or point fingers or try and get an apology from him .  Today and tomorrow is my new mantra.  After I said that he asked if he could speak to me tonight......WHAT?  No clue what he has to say........Im curious and cautious.....I think once i released the resistance alignment followed.  I wasn't just saying that about not talking about the past, I actually mean it.

Seeker wrote:

HI there, just a  quick update.  We talked two different nights for two hours at a time. There was some crying, anger and then a change in conversation and laughter.  He has been angry at me and that is why he hasn't reached out..what he did tell me is that he THINKS ABOUT ME EVERY DAY....I accredit that to LOA.  I truly believe our story isn't over, but for now Im laying low.  He did not ask to see me and I am being patient.  I am going back to focusing on myself, its easy to fall back into old patterns.....

Let go . Yes laying low is the best. They come running when you focus on you and are happy in general. Do not reach out for a bit i know tempting but it's better for you that way annnnd better for the relationship.