So, I attracted back an ex I wasn't trying to attract back lol. Now I'm just so conflicted because I really don't know who to focus on. I feel like I have unfinished business with the ex I was orginally trying to attract back and there's definitely still a will in me to want to make things right with him. I mean, i found this forum when trying to attract him back, not the ex that actually came back. But I'm having troubles focusing on one or the other. I think I'm my heart I would like to make things right with the orginal ex and I won't be able to truely focus on the ex that actually came back until I successful mend things with the ex I was originally focusing on. Please don't think I'm ridiculous, but I think I have extremely strong feelings for two people.  I would really appreciate suggestions.


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Yeah, I wasn't necessarily meaning meet for lunch or something crazy like that, I'm just trying to go about everything in the best way possible, like everyone else on this forum. thanks! Lol

So, I have a interesting dilemma, maybe it's not a dilemma, rather I just don't know. I have these 2 wonderful men, both exs actually. One was the recent ex that I was trying to attract back when I joined this forum. But then Recently within the last month, I have become really happy. I am doing so well. I feel good. I can't remember last time I felt like this, no emotional stress or heartache. I'm a young independent woman, doing my own thing. And loving my life.

But I would like one a wonderful men to accompany me in my wonderful, happy life. An old ex recently appeared in my life and has made so much improvement and I am so proud of him. And after communication and catching up, I see he is becoming a person I could see myself being happy with. Which I never thought would come from him. I realized that came from my visualizations and work put into LOA. It was unexpected, but surprisingly nice. (When I was trying very hard to attract my recent ex back, I did a lot of releasing work with my old ex to make sure all that past was cleared. I felt nothing for him anymore, I really wanted my recent ex back.) so that's why it's surprising to me he's come around in my life again, because he's not the one I thought I wanted.

But when I try to visualize things with him to keep creating this new idea of rekindling things with this old ex, my more recent ex comes up in my mind and I can't seem to focus on one or the other. And it's not like I don't want the recent ex to be there- it's like he's shows up because my mind cant decide if I want this wonderful life and wonderful qualities with the old or new ex. Lol. My subconscious is conflicted and can't figure out which one to invest my energy into. I get hints from the universe all day for both of them. Like for example today I was deliberately trying to visualize something with my old ex because he has reached out to me and it's been fun and I've liked it. and then my recent ex and I's song came on.  (And ever since it bec

Uni is going on summer vacation in 2 weeks or so. Would really like to have some conversation or something with my love before I don't get to see him for 3 months and we've been in no real contact since mid Feb. Any suggestions on how to go about this? Definitely visualizations and all. I don't feel any need to reach out to him, I want him to reach out. Suggestions?

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Hello lovely forum

Just wanted to share my success, because I've had so much and feel so good, its ridiculous ;) No, my love and I are not back together, actually quite the opposite, but in the best ways. I'm seeing other people, not regularly, not eagerly, I just do what feels good. If I want to go out with someone, I will and if I don't, I won't. I'm not seeing other people because I "feel" thats the right thing or I "feel" thats what I need to do to get my love back. No. I started seeing other people when I was ready.

I realized all success comes in doing ONLY what makes you happy. Sound silly and simple, but thats cuz it is simple. Haha. Not putting myself in situations where I could potentially get hurt, etc. Making this decision really helps me to LIVE CONSCIOUSLY. It really helped me figure out what I enjoy doing and what actually makes me happy. Unlike before when only conditional things were making me happy.

Next, I had a dream last night that I told someone "I think I've outgrown him", talking about my love. I woke up this morning and thought on that a little bit because initially it freaked me out. But then I realized, my subconscious or dreams or whatever was exactly right. I listen to Abe every moment of the day I can because I feel so good from it and  I realized less and less of the videos I look for have to do with love and my relationship. I realized I do less and less of PW and RS on him and more on other friendships, etc. I only do it on him when I want and when it makes me feel good. But I don't force it or only do it because I think thats the only way to get him back. I realized there is nothing specific to be done, theres no checklist. I see so many people on here saying "oh if i don't do this or if i do this at this time will it reverse it, etc etc." No, it doesn't work that way. You could do any method, anything you want, you could do no methods at all and still get your love back as long as YOU FEEL GOOD. thats it. 

Anyways, I reali