Hi TheSilverLining, I am so grateful that you have decided to do this everyday! 

"Every relationship and shared experience is a complementary reality, which means that our beliefs complement each other. That doesn’t mean that we share the same beliefs. Often complementary beliefs are opposing beliefs. For example, someone who has abandonment issues may attract a partner who is afraid of commitment. These opposing issues (beliefs) are complementary because they fit together perfectly to play out a particular story."

This is my relationship in a nutshell and I do have abandonment issues because my after much psychological treatment for anxiety and depression, my father did abandon our family and my mother is someone who believes love is conditional and we must do for her and then do for us and that still affects me today. Now I have written about that many times on here but letting go of the feelings of abandonment are so difficult. Any tips?  I mean we have had times where when we break up and get back together after a few months I am amazed by the changes that come forth in our relationship so I know it is worth starting my journey over but I want to maintain the changes and self-love that I create in my life and also in my relationship. 
 

I agree with PrettyFlamingo,

At the end of the day these are your own manifestations that are happening because it is what you focused on, I think we can all agree on that. Raise your vibe, love yourself and watch him float back into your life. 

OMGoodness. Exams have completely taken over my life and is all I'm thinking about. So imagine my surprise when J comes strolling through my office doors bringing me my favourite lunch and wearing the most intoxicating smile. I can't help it, I am in love with this man. He is sweet and kind and loving and so supportive of me getting my education. He is always there when times are tough to lend a hand or smile or a shoulder. He is the best. He is home and my safe place when I need it. I am so glad that I only have two more exams left and then after that J says we are going to celebrate the holidays in the most beautiful way every! I am so excited. I love my man. Thank you Universe for this amazing and unconditionally accepting and supportive person in my life. I love him so much. 

Continue visualizing him telling you exactly what you want. If you stay in contact that is up to you. Veronica's book recommends no contact and I've really found that when my love and I have gotten back together (we have previously broken up twice) it really effects him and after that time he does come back and he says exactly what I have visualized him saying.. or better. No contact is your choice but doing things like talking to him when you feel low, checking his social media, and continuing to hold on when you know he isn't in the same vibration as you end up hurting you in the long run.
Also, you say he contacts you  and through this it raises your vibration. You should know that your vibration is dependent on you and no one else. The higher your vibe, the easier it is for the things you want to manifest to come into your reality. So make your vibration your job and your responsibility so that you aren't making your happiness dependent on anyone else except you. 
With RS, some of the "side effects" are that your POI often pushback against the feelings that are brought up from the RS as a way of denying it, or not being fully "ready" to acknowledge that he might actually want a relationship. So keep going and visualizing and soon you will see that manifestations you desire. 
Just always make this journey about your self love first and then everything you desire will come at lightening fast speed! 

AnythingIsPossible wrote:

I did this. I checked my guy's instagram everyday, sometimes multiple times a day, for a few weeks hoping that he wouldn't post a picture with the girl he's dating because, to me, posting on instagram makes it official. Well, this past Sunday I checked his profile like I always did and there was the picture. I was devastated, but I've accepted reality. I created it. Right when I saw the picture, I knew what I'd done and have since decided to stay off social media all together. 

Now, I'm working on creating something different, something better, something positive, something that I actually want. You can do the same. LOA is ALWAYS working. 

Create something different! I love that. LOA is always working and everything can change so quickly when you are aligned with what you desire there is no telling what you can desire. I know it sucks right now but cheer up in knowing you can change the course of this.