Self love hahaha. Take those thoughts that it’s a sign from the universe reminding you that you need to love yourself! Anytime you have those feelings really sit there and thank you universe for your wonderful life and keep listing everything you are grateful for until you feel grateful! And keep telling yourself that “I love myself” over and over!!! You can never tell yourself that too many times! Self love is something that we can only keep growing every day . Remember you are powerful, you have god in you! Your ex is yours if you just truly believe!! I think it might have been Sanshi who said that if we are god why are we worried about obstacles? God doesn’t have obstacles! We are our own obstacles! You need to really feel as if your ex is with you and truly believe it. Don’t doubt yourself!!! Just believe, smile and kick back with a book and your ex will be coming to you when you allow him to!