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So I only discovered LOA a few weeks ago and as some of you may know, the whole purpose I joined in the first place is to attract my ex back. The first 3 weeks I was very focused and determined. I did everything I could and I felt amazing. I had a few fall backs here and there but I'm slowly grasping the concept more. 
For anyone who is finding it hard to focus, sometimes it's best to take a step back and re-evaluate. 
Make yourself feel good before thinking about you love again.
Find ways such as scripting, affirming or visualization and do anything that makes you feel good. 

At first I was very confused with visualization and affirming. I only managed to do it 3-4times successfully. I was panicking that I couldn't see my man's face properly or if I was doing it right etc... but then as I read more and realised, my thoughts create things. If in my heart I know it's him, if in my heart I say it's him then it doesn't matter. As long as the feelings are there. I realised scripting was my stronger suit. It helps me change my way of thinking easier and helped with visualization instead.It put me in a good mood. There is no right or wrong way of doing things as long as you are happy. Your thoughts create things so just take it lightheartedly and treat it like a you're creating a movie of your lifetime. Create that dream reconciliation with your love. Create that date or holiday, honeymoon or wedding. Whatever you want. Life is like a game and you only lose if you take it too seriously with expectations and stress. Just relax and go with it. Never give yourself a time limit since it can pressure you. Daydream and feel the joy and fun and it'll catch up in this reflection eventually.

I think a lot of the times when something is sooo important to us we get scared we won't get it, we get scared we'll lose and so we experience lack etc... But if we attracted our loves once, we can do it over and over and over again. It just depends how much you want it. There is an infin

Havefaith91 wrote:

It will only slow down your manifestation if you believe it to. Whatever you believe you are creating. So no, it doesn't have to. I don't usually everyday. Sometimes I'm too exhausted after working a long day or sometimes we fall asleep together and I just focus on that feeling. It is great that you don't obsess over it. Some people have to do it and are too focused on the outcome. You sound like you are on the right path. Just keep it up, and don't become too attached. Enjoy life in the process. Be grateful for all that you do have now!

A trick I used to use when I had some doubts is attracting small things to make me smile, like a cup of coffee or tea😆

Yeah, I think I forgot the whole point I started this was because I wanted to have fun and have that feeling I attracted in the first place with him. I guess I started to obsess a little since I kept looking at the date as Xmas is coming up. :')
But thank you for putting me back on the right track. I've definitely woke up thinking he's back already. Slowly but surely in December when he comes back from his skiing trip, I'll be the one picking him up at the airport in my new car with my new license ;)
The Universe will bring that too me. After all it'll bring anything as long as I'm in the right mindset.
Thank you! 

 

I also wanted to ask, if I don't script and visualise about him everyday but just carried on with my life, and only did it when I felt good or wanted do you think this will slow down or cancel my manifestation? 
Cause I guess in a way I forgot about it for a few days, then as soon as I passed my driving test I really wanted to talk to him but then remembered our current situation. I realised then I was still attached to the outcome and timing and so I fell back a bit.

Really needed to read this today! Thank youuu!