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But just so you know when I moved on that attachment to the first guy disappeared. 3 years and 2 years into another relationship he still tries to date me againππ he hasn't moved on to anyone else either. But I'm past that relationship I am in the reality where I know what I am worth and other attracted someone who is great for meπ
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Interesting... it's so interesting when you start to consciously see and use LOA.
Guess you can say I'm still trying to get a hang of it
Slowly but surely my man will come back.Β
I build my own reality and it's time to train my brain into thinking that way instead of moping around all the time :')
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I also wanted to ask, if I don't script and visualise about him everyday but just carried on with my life, and only did it when I felt good or wanted do you think this will slow down or cancel my manifestation?Β
Cause I guess in a way I forgot about it for a few days, then as soon as I passed my driving test I really wanted to talk to him but then remembered our current situation. I realised then I was still attached to the outcome and timing and so I fell back a bit.
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It will only slow down your manifestation if you believe it to. Whatever you believe you are creating. So no, it doesn't have to. I don't usually everyday. Sometimes I'm too exhausted after working a long day or sometimes we fall asleep together and I just focus on that feeling. It is great that you don't obsess over it. Some people have to do it and are too focused on the outcome. You sound like you are on the right path. Just keep it up, and don't become too attached. Enjoy life in the process. Be grateful for all that you do have now!
A trick I used to use when I had some doubts is attracting small things to make me smile, like a cup of coffee or teaπ
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zionthecomedian wrote:
I also wanted to ask, if I don't script and visualise about him everyday but just carried on with my life, and only did it when I felt good or wanted do you think this will slow down or cancel my manifestation?Β
Cause I guess in a way I forgot about it for a few days, then as soon as I passed my driving test I really wanted to talk to him but then remembered our current situation. I realised then I was still attached to the outcome and timing and so I fell back a bit.
There is nothing or no one that can slow down your manifestation other than you. I have taken a manifestation course in the past and these things are really just to raise your vibration and get you to a place of feeling as if. So it isn't "mandatory" for you to actually be doing these things once you are aligned, but I still like to write in my gratitude journal in the morning because it just sets a really positive, happy and grateful intention for my day. These things have made me realize how important it is to focus on myself while still manifesting my desire.Β
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Havefaith91 wrote:
It will only slow down your manifestation if you believe it to. Whatever you believe you are creating. So no, it doesn't have to. I don't usually everyday. Sometimes I'm too exhausted after working a long day or sometimes we fall asleep together and I just focus on that feeling. It is great that you don't obsess over it. Some people have to do it and are too focused on the outcome. You sound like you are on the right path. Just keep it up, and don't become too attached. Enjoy life in the process. Be grateful for all that you do have now!
A trick I used to use when I had some doubts is attracting small things to make me smile, like a cup of coffee or teaπ
Yeah, I think I forgot the whole point I started this was because I wanted to have fun and have that feeling I attracted in the first place with him. I guess I started to obsess a little since I kept looking at the date as Xmas is coming up. :')
But thank you for putting me back on the right track. I've definitely woke up thinking he's back already. Slowly but surely in December when he comes back from his skiing trip, I'll be the one picking him up at the airport in my new car with my new license ;)
The Universe will bring that too me. After all it'll bring anything as long as I'm in the right mindset.
Thank you!Β
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Alycat1110 wrote:
zionthecomedian wrote:
I also wanted to ask, if I don't script and visualise about him everyday but just carried on with my life, and only did it when I felt good or wanted do you think this will slow down or cancel my manifestation?Β
Cause I guess in a way I forgot about it for a few days, then as soon as I passed my driving test I really wanted to talk to him but then remembered our current situation. I realised then I was still attached to the outcome and timing and so I fell back a bit.There is nothing or no one that can slow down your manifestation other than you. I have taken a manifestation course in the past and these things are really just to raise your vibration and get you to a place of feeling as if. So it isn't "mandatory" for you to actually be doing these things once you are aligned, but I still like to write in my gratitude journal in the morning because it just sets a really positive, happy and grateful intention for my day. These things have made me realize how important it is to focus on myself while still manifesting my desire.Β
I see. I like to write my gratitude journal too It's fun.Β
I think I'll start scripting too because it feels good.