Gratitude21 wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

I've been struggling with the urge to contact. Nothing intense, but I do miss him. I miss waking up to "good morning doll" texts and just having someone to make me laugh. 

I did have an energy healing yesterday and she tuned into him. She said the RS is working (I do very subtle where we normally don't talk and I just kiss and touch his face) and is affecting his moods. The only thing she said that's keeping him from contacting me is that he is one of those people who doesn't forgive. So now I need to work on that. Any ideas on what I should be visualizing to get him past that?

Hi, somebody in this trail itself has suggested writing letters to your POI but keeping them to yourself.
Here is the link -

http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=7111

I've started this two days back. It does make you feel light and probably might help in your situation too.
All the best!

So funny! I saw that post the other ther day, did a letter, and totally forgot about it. The next time I get the urge I'll do that. Thanks!!!

Awww! Hooray!!!

Just visualize what you want. I follow a YouTuber who talks about how people manifest. Some people want marriage so they just envision the end result. Their little manifestations are the dates, new jobs, things slowly falling into place to build up to that end result. Others manifest each step individually. If that's your route, think about that you want next. Maybe script and visualize that. Sounds like you have a good grip on this!

I think one thing that isn't talked about enough is that when you do RS, you attach to your POI. He could be doing RS, but it's more likely that you need to cut the cord. You probably created this energy between you and have not released it properly.

There are etheric cord cutting meditations on YouTube. You may need to do it several times, but it will help. Then stop doing the techniques. This isn't something you need to do forever.

Gratitude21 wrote:

Gratitude21 wrote:

It's been a little close to 2months of no contact and I've felt fine doing my 25days challenge and meditations and visualisations. I did miss him off and on...did get disheartened at times but used to get out of that zone and continue being happy and positive.
But from past two days I'm so tempted to call and talk to him. Not sure if I should do so. We broke up on a chat...and as it was getting a little nasty from my end he said he will not talk on phone at least today but will call me in a day or two, which he never did.
Shall I call?...or continue doing my stuff and wait for Universe to make him call me?
Please advise.

Anybody?

I may be alone here, but I don't see a reason not to reach out. Just a friendly, "Hey, I was just thinking about you. How have you been?".  Be okay with whatever the result is. Remember that he could respond kindly, he could tell you he doesn't want to talk, he could ignore it, and he could block you. Prepare yourself and know that you'll be okay regardless. You've been just fine for two months on your own. You don't NEED him. You just want him. This could be the gentle nudge you need to know if it's going to happen or to move on.

I wouldn't advise this in probably any other situation. Because he wasn't upset with you and wanted some time to cool off, I am saying go for it.

MissMiles906 wrote:

So my guy and I dated about ten years ago. Last year November I kept smelling him. I kept thinking of him. I couldn't stop hearing his voice or feeling his hands on me. Just got outta control. When I finally got the courage to contact him...he emailed me. Apparently my lil sister had been reaching out to him and he was curious about me too.

Starting February this year we were dating regularly. He made so much time for me. I was so in love. Id always see Texas license plates, the numbers 29 and 73 and I always heard Bora Bora or asking Beloved by Jordan Feliz.

By July things got odd. I had a few negative events happen and he did too. We just faded away a little. By end of the month he was traveling for work and I had not seen him in 3weeks.

So on day I'm driving and swear I see him with another girl. I call his yelling about being with someone else and he was like I'm home, you're crazy, I'm stressed, no money, can't live a life I want too, I'm over it, I'm done.

About 2 week ago he called and explained a little that he apologized but being a couple was tough because there was just no time and he was overwhelmed and that was that.

I sent him a thank you email for loving me but let go.

Yesterday was my birthday. He DID send me a text. I had been rebooting the 25 day challenge, meditation, visualized, sending heart love and started seeing Texas license plates again..i live in Maryland. Read a post today about a couple one in Maryland one in Texas. Hearing the song Beloved and my cousin randomly says yester she wanted to go to Bora Bora.

His text yesterday was pretty basic happy birthday. I said thanks for remembering honey. He says I hope you have a good day baby I said thank you and i appreciate you..he says I love you too babe...ttyl!

However positive that was, I feel like I can still hearing him in my head telling me to come to him...and I'm usually saying out loud..no it's your turn, or what you want me to say, you left. Like it's so lou

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