Miriam ye wrote:

 as I said this is what happened, but if I have to live from the end result I was wandering if I did something "wrong" by trying to focus on the little steps in between... So in this case his contact to me.
Maybe would it be better leave the little episodes and just focus on our beutiful relationship?

of course! We are on this forum to support each other.  I agree, simply focus on the end result of having a loving and compatible relationship. What I've noticed is that people do meditations on receiving a text or a call, and that's it. Think about it like this...The universe knows that you want and it will move things around to get that to you. And those situations and events that the universe moves around can include a text, or a call, or them showing up at our front door. You don't really know how and you don't need to know how. The Universe is always finding a way to bring your desire fast to you. So, you don't need to try to manifest each little step. Neville got his specific person by visualizing that he was marrying her and having a happy life with her even before they started anything I think.

You should be proud and grateful of every little step! If it makes you feel better, I still haven't received a text from him yet. But that's ok.  I'm much better aligned now than I was before. Also, don't shame yourself if you think you did something "wrong". Forgive yourself. That way you are being kind and loving to yourself and not being so negative and doubtful about yourself. You are doing an amazing job!!! Just because you can't see it, it doesn't mean that it's not happening.

Lack of Evidence DOES NOT EQUAL Evidence of Lack. 

Thanks everyone! You all are so supportive and so kind. Thanks for helping me get to this alignment point so quickly. I look forward to posting my success story soon. 

Hi all! I have no idea whether someone has posted this link or not, but I found an amazing page on Neville's teachings. There's an clear audio track you can listen to for each chapter of his books (it's not neville speaking, but it's definitely clearer). I find it easier to read and listen to than the ones on youtube (because the ones on youtube has a poor sound quality due to the technology back then). 

But here is the link: 
http://www.feelingisthesecret.org/ 

Reading/listening to this with the combination of everyone's advice really helped my mind click the other day. Even though I've heard the phrase "live in the end" and "act as if" over and over again, I didn't really understand it nor did I apply it until I read this. The reason why maybe I've been having difficultly with LOA for my sp is because I've been living constantly in the "want" phase. I didn't visualize what I wanted (key missing step). This reading makes me understand the whole "time and space" element to LOA as well. 

I hope this helps everyone! Sending love and hope to you all! You all have what you desire. 
 

Today, we went to the Waterfalls again for a family gathering. He showed up prepared with flowers for my mom as it was her birthday. We rented out the bicycles and biked around the parks and went for a walk on the trail. When there were bumpy rocks in the way, he made sure to guide and hold my mother's hand to ensure that she was safe. That was so so sweet of him. This is a park that the both of us frequent a lot. We sat down and we let our legs dip into the water as we ate some fruits. He even took the time to learn some Vietnamese to impress my mother. My sister's boyfriend was very kind to him and questioned him about his goals in life. I am so happy that our family is at peace and accepting him into our family again. It made me so happy seeing everyone smile and laugh with one another. Thank you universe. I am forever grateful that he and i are in a committed and healthy relationship. 

Thanks for your reply, Cynthia! I really appreciate your advice. I'm definitely going to try the revision thing. Would you be able to go into more depth on your advice?

" Desperation to get him back (doing or trying to do so many techniques all at once). "
- Should I be doing nothing then? How can I do techniques and visualizations without making it seem like because I am desperate or in need? Is it considered desperation if you perform any LOA techniques? (if you know what I mean).

"paying too much attention to the current outward appearances"
- Could you give advice on how to not pay attention to the outward appearances? Do you mean this as ignoring the current reality? I'd like some guidance on how to do this properly. I think what I've been doing is removing myself from spaces that may include him, because it would remind me of the current reality. Does revision work with this as well?

"and not giving things enough time to work and for the situation to change for the better."
- What do you mean by this?   As in, I don't give enough time between my techniques and practices for things to happen? How do I know what is and what isn't enough time? 

Thanks again for your help. I really appreciate your help. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!!!