Hi there! Don't give up and don't give into those thoughts of him "not seeing you as a girlfriend". Act as if. If you were his girlfriend, you wouldn't think that. As of now, I would make sure to do self-love affirmations for yourself. Know that you are worthy and deserving of this manifestation.

If it makes you feel better, I have been trying to practice LOA for the past 6/7 months to attract back him. Been 4 months of NC. I realized now that the reason why it was taking me so long was because I kept noticing the "lack" of it and not living in the end. So, I don't want you to do the same. You just need to feel confident that he is yours. I

started the 25 day challenge and I'm on Day 5. We can support each other and do this together. :D 

Yeah keep going. I have been visualising conciously for 8 days and today I started the 25 day challenge as well.
I am a guy trying to get back together with my ex girlfriend. It might be different when it is that way around, but not impossible.

Let's just support and motivate each other.

Thank you witchtable.
Yes I want to keep going.
But what do you think about my question? Do I screw everything up if I try to manifest an other conversation with him and not jist focus on the end result?

Miriam ye wrote:

 as I said this is what happened, but if I have to live from the end result I was wandering if I did something "wrong" by trying to focus on the little steps in between... So in this case his contact to me.
Maybe would it be better leave the little episodes and just focus on our beutiful relationship?

of course! We are on this forum to support each other.  I agree, simply focus on the end result of having a loving and compatible relationship. What I've noticed is that people do meditations on receiving a text or a call, and that's it. Think about it like this...The universe knows that you want and it will move things around to get that to you. And those situations and events that the universe moves around can include a text, or a call, or them showing up at our front door. You don't really know how and you don't need to know how. The Universe is always finding a way to bring your desire fast to you. So, you don't need to try to manifest each little step. Neville got his specific person by visualizing that he was marrying her and having a happy life with her even before they started anything I think.

You should be proud and grateful of every little step! If it makes you feel better, I still haven't received a text from him yet. But that's ok.  I'm much better aligned now than I was before. Also, don't shame yourself if you think you did something "wrong". Forgive yourself. That way you are being kind and loving to yourself and not being so negative and doubtful about yourself. You are doing an amazing job!!! Just because you can't see it, it doesn't mean that it's not happening.

Lack of Evidence DOES NOT EQUAL Evidence of Lack.