I've been ghosted. 6 weeks now.
I don't get why people do it.
Be mature!

Thx for the link. That blog makes you Think. Why on earth would I let a single person control my life like that?
There are litterally thousands of possible partners out there.

So, I could use a bit of help here.

In about 1,5 weeks time I'm invited to the same birthday party as the girl I dated 5 weeks ago, and who I want to re-attract.
We had a great time when we dated, but 5 weeks ago she said she had to put us aside until at least august, when she's done moving and begun her new study.

I haven't heard from her since then, beside the 4 times I've written to her.
She has always answerd neutral and not showing any sign of interrest, and She stopped liking and commenting on my FB and IG posts.

Now, we are both invited to the same party, and for the last 2 weeks I've been going back and forth on attending this birthday party.
One day I tell myself to go. The next, not to go.

Today I asked the universe for a clear cut answer if I should go or not.
No bullshit- just give it to me straight.
And then I actually forgot all about it.

So Today I sat and talked to a collegue of mine and we came in on the subject of girls and stuff.
We got to talk about this birthday party, and that I was in doubt about going.
And then he said, "of course you Should go. Be the bigger man. Act cool and say hello. If she doesn't want to talk to you, you just go talk to somebody else. But you have to act like a man and not show that this bothers you".

Now, my thought is, we could have talked about this even if I didn't ask for an answer from the universe.
But I did. And it was a clear cut, no bullshit answer he gave me.
Maybe the universe lined this conversation up, because I asked for an answer?
What do you think About this?
And do you think I Should or shouldn't go to the party?

Lifesagas wrote:

If i'd been talking to someone for just 2 weeks and straight away we were talking 'all day every day', I'd feel like there was a lot of intensity, need and over-focus projection going on and it would freak me out and make me step back.

So maybe it's something like that. It's not just negative thoughts that can cause problems.

Actually this happen to me.
It started way too intense and fast, so she bailed on me and have been ghosting me for the last 5 weeks.
She freaked out and felt everything went too fast.

I've read somewhere that, when your POI goes no contact with you after
You've started PW/BWD, it's actually a good sign.
How is that?