Sanshi wrote:

I am done with this forum. I can't stand it anymore. This is not a LoA forum, this is a forum of people who deliberately hurt themselves. I barely see anybody around here who applies LoA or takes any advice, even though all information is there. You just need to read Cherished posts and you have everything you need. But she never said anywhere that you have to wait, be miserable, beg, stalk, tell everybody "your story"... How often have I read this line: "Here is my story". Wft??? Think about that for a moment. YOUR story? That's the story of your breakup or your story after your breakup in regards to your ex, but it isn't YOUR story. Don't you really have anything else to say about yourself? Isn't there more to you and the story you are telling about yourself than THAT? That's pretty sad!

In an act of active self-love, I leave this forum, because it has nothing to give to me. I didn't get back anything in the past at least 10 months - except attacks from people who didn't understand what I was telling them. I am done with that. I can't help anybody here. And I reached a point where I don't longer want to. I wouldn't consider it helping anymore to give someone advice to get their ex back. The only advice that makes sense to me now is advice about getting YOU back and that is barely discussed in that forum and understood mostly as offensive, when it is brought up in a discussion - how ironic that is! I am lacking empathy, when I care about how YOU feel and not giving you advice on how to make yourself miserable by using techniques on your ex that doesn't work from the place where you are standing? Seriously???

I have considered leaving for a long time now, but a part of me still hung on to my past. But now, I am glad that I am able to leave it behind. I think I will start a LoA blog soon to share what I have to say.

If anybody is interested in keeping in touch, text me. For everybody else here, I wish the best which means to me to feel better, stop o

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