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Just found out today that my girl is planning to buy a house with her new BF.
What a punch in the gut. I feel kinda low right now.
I've been using all sorts of RS, Visualizations, feeling good and happy, believing, feeling her, meditating etc.
Doing all the stuff LoA tells us to do to get in alignment and reaching our love.
But was it all for nothing?
What to do now?
How to get back up form this?
Should I just give up now?
I really want to feel like this is possible and we are already together. But it's so hard. We haven't been together and haven't talked for 6 months now.
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Roughly 50% of first time marriages fail.Β 70% of the following marriages fail.Β I give you these numbers just so you can see how bad people are at finding a person that is compatible with them. People moving in together, having babies or getting married doesn't guarantee anything. A large amount of relationships just don't end happily ever after. You really don't have any reason to feel like everything has ended, unless that is what you want. If you are set to be in a lifelong relationship starting 6 months from now, why does it matter so much who she dates in between?
I love the article that Marie wrote on timing.Β I think you should check it out:
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I just feel like I'm emotionally been knocked 3 months back, and are having trouble finding inner joy.
I was feeling so grateful and good and was sure we were getting back together.
Now I kinda feel like the past 3 months were a waste of time π
I need to get my mojo back and feeling good again...
I just don't know how at the moment.
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Are you keeping a track on them?
Then dont cause that is what you are feeding your mind with. Just concentrate on you and her.
Try this subliminal tooΒ ββ β
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Who makes such an investment with a new person. I would not worry about this if I were you.
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When I was 20 I met a guy in March, got engaged in April and bought an apartment in May. It was ridiculous. I didn't know him and by the time I did, along with the knowledge we were wrong for each other I was tied to him financially and screaming to get out of it.
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:
When I was 20 I met a guy in March, got engaged in April and bought an apartment in May. It was ridiculous. I didn't know him and by the time I did, along with the knowledge we were wrong for each other I was tied to him financially and screaming to get out of it.
Bingo!
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Ziestyles wrote:
Are you keeping a track on them?
Then dont cause that is what you are feeding your mind with. Just concentrate on you and her.
Try this subliminal tooΒ ββ β
I'm not keeping track on them. I just got the news from a family member, even though I didn't ask for it.
The person said that my girl had asked her dad for a loan to the house, but he didn't want to give it to her at the moment.
I just really don't know to bounce back right now.
I tell my self everyday day that I'm right on track and we will be back together in the right time. But it's so hard to get my heart and mind to believe it.
I know that's the only thing holding me back.
I know I can attract money, a new car and so on. But I'm having difficulty believing I can attract a person.
I don't know why...
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Avaelle wrote:
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
When I was 20 I met a guy in March, got engaged in April and bought an apartment in May. It was ridiculous. I didn't know him and by the time I did, along with the knowledge we were wrong for each other I was tied to him financially and screaming to get out of it.
Bingo!
I was a student and he was 7 years older and so superior and kept telling me how I didn't contribute. It was a mistake.