Thank you, YesIWILL. Actually I try to keep this in mind to keep me going. I picture my reality like a continuous hexagon with limitless paths and results for every option and action I choose. This action then has several options and so on. This helps me know there is no 'one' reality we are tied to and we can create it as we go along.

Ha, well look at you YesIWILL, you're  a cutie!

Congratulations and goodluck with your new relationship!! Love and light to you!

Hi suzy, indeed that is very true. The hardest thing to accept in this process is that it begins with SELF..and it is when we realize that, it is only then the entire picture is painted that there is so much more to just attracting an ex back. Your entire life unfolds infront of you and all for the better. You learn and you grow, if you allow the process to take full course. I think some people are scared to do this, maybe they are scared  of the answers it may reveal, but it is alllllll you and it can be an extremely beautiful journey if you allow it. 

Another thing I have noticed is that persons post in the forums seeking methods and techniques and trying everything under the sun like a magic wand without accepting the fact that first and foremost the issue of SELF needs to be addressed. I was a mess just like the next person believe me...lol but luckily I adapt quickly and kick in to survivor mode with a quickness. I chose not to be a victim anymore and it is when I finally believed in myself and my capabilities, was it then I was able to completely believe and trust the process AND it was then I was able to 'manifest my ex back' However even then I realized this goes so much deeper than this...this is literally the key to my entire life.

I have honestly enjoyed working on myself through this entire process, all my relationships have changed. Family, friends, my ex you name it! It breaks my heart to see some still spinning in circles not realizing the power has been and still is within them all along, but we all have our own roads to journey and we must always be willing to guide each other along the way. 
 

In 'trying to manifest your ex back' it is important to focus on EXACTLY what you want. That is - you don't want 'the person' like you want a cat or a dog, ( What does one do with a human being anyway, lol ) you want a relationship WITH this person. Ask yourself, What type of relationship do I want with this specific person? Is it a loving, faithful, committed one? Where do I want the relationship to go, do you want this person to eventually be your spouse, build a family with them? Be specific, don't try to make sense out of it by putting current reality into the mix and trying to figure out how it will all work out- that is not your job. Your job is to see and feel yourself having your desired outcome and believing and trusting it will happen. If you focus on just 'attracting your ex back' yes you may attract them by seeing them down the street, seeing their pictures on social media, seeing their name..so technically you have manifested them back to your reality ( way to go!) but that is not what you want! you  want the relationship right..?

So what do yo do in the mean time? Fall in love with yourself! be a person that doesn't need another person to feel complete. love yourself, nurture yourself and be easy on yourself. This way you become a sure magnet to love and wonderful experiences, your ex will have no choice but to return.. and thats the magic right there! they will be a perfect compliment to all the other wonderful manifestations that will come your way when you truly love yourself.

Set the chief AIM - Make your intentions Clear 
Be persistent - Mental reconditioning takes work but it is possible 
Focus on your END result - what you are experiencing now is a product of your past thoughts. So why not make future experience ones that you actually want? that is the beauty of being a conscious creator. 

Love and light to everyone