Hey everyone, I'm back on the forum...

Me and my ex broke up in January, which is when I discover the loa and this forum, for months I was pretty desperate to get him back, trying out all the techniques etc and just didn't feel like it was working (probably because I was desperate) so I just one day decided to give it a rest and try and get over it! Which Iv done, I feel so much more independent and happy now, Iv dated other people.. Which has shown me that there are other people out there for me, but.... I still want him, so I'm back on here to see if I can get him back, only this time I don't feel desperate at all and more just excited to see what happens! Which I think is a way better place to be in...

Any advice would be much appreciated, me and him have been speaking recently and even staying round eachothers houses .. Oops, I'm not going to mention to him getting back together or anything though as want things to happen naturally and trying to be as chilled about the situation as possible... Wish me luck!

I feel like sometimes it's made out like it is a one way street and it's only applicable to us but it isn't

Hi everyone

So we're always told not to take action because it shows we don't trust the universe etc and that we will bring what we want with out thoughts, which I understand and I actually did in the beginning, I did no contact for about 3 weeks and my boyfriend called me anyways after than we went a month no contact and I finally was like you know what I'm gonna reach out, so I text him and it went well and we've been texting abit and chatting and will be meeting up soon, which was my suggestion.

I don't think I took inspired action I just decided i wanted to talk to him and move things forward so I did and it went well.

My question is why are we told to not take action? Surely if we want to we should just do it? As the law of attraction isn't just working for us individually, what if the other person is sitting there thinking, they're gonna call me and contact me and then you're sitting there thinking the same of them and therefore no one calls anyone??

I hope that makes sense haha!

Me and my bf both had stressful lives towards the end of last year and ended up going on a break at the end of January, since then Iv got a new job and sorted my life out and I feel like the old me!

About a month after we split I managed to manifest a phone call from him, we chatted for a while and at the end I said do you think about sorting stuff out with us? And he said yeah sort of but let's discuss it another time.

Then we didn't speak for abit until 2 weeks ago I decided to message him (I know you're meant to do no contact but hey) anyway I sent him a message saying fancy a catch up soon? And he said yeah! Will call on Monday, but I went on holiday on Monday so I said I'd call him when I'm back, we chatted a little bit here and there whilst I was away and tonight I'm gonna call him!

Wish me luck!!!!!

Thoughtisform wrote:

That's brilliant, I took inspired action last night as contacted my guy, we are planning on meeting up for a coffee, baby steps guys!

That's great wahooo! Can I just ask what your inspired action was?? Like what inspired u to take it?? Sometimes I don't know whether I should act on things, I figure if I have doubt about it then I shouldn't! So I don't, But just curious as to what yours was