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Question about taking action
Hi everyone
So we're always told not to take action because it shows we don't trust the universe etc and that we will bring what we want with out thoughts, which I understand and I actually did in the beginning, I did no contact for about 3 weeks and my boyfriend called me anyways after than we went a month no contact and I finally was like you know what I'm gonna reach out, so I text him and it went well and we've been texting abit and chatting and will be meeting up soon, which was my suggestion.
I don't think I took inspired action I just decided i wanted to talk to him and move things forward so I did and it went well.
My question is why are we told to not take action? Surely if we want to we should just do it? As the law of attraction isn't just working for us individually, what if the other person is sitting there thinking, they're gonna call me and contact me and then you're sitting there thinking the same of them and therefore no one calls anyone??
I hope that makes sense haha!
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Re: Question about taking action
i feel it's more because a lot of people try talking to their person in a place of neediness and negativity causing situations that they don't necessarily want. it also boosts the self esteem up when they do lol and it gives people time to focus on being positive
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Okay, but for example, a lot of people say that if they contact you you have attracted that contact right? But surely if you want to contact them you want that for a reason, how do you know that it's not because they want you to contact them?
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I feel like sometimes it's made out like it is a one way street and it's only applicable to us but it isn't
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And, sorry to keep posting, but another thing, they say that we created the breakup into our reality via our thoughts, but I didn't think you could create another reality but surely in that case I have created the breakup in his reality aswel?
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Re: Question about taking action
I guess it's true, there have been times I've wanted an ex who I broke up with to contact me, not wanted it a lot, just sort of thought it would be nice for them to say hi and be friendly because I was too scared to contact them because I felt guilty....I also did do something I know people on this forum, including myself, find super annoying, which is to manifest contact from an ex but then I didn't reply to them (I broke up with him a long time ago) I guess I just wanted an apology from him and also to feel like he cared but when I got the apology and the message asking if I was still angry, I didn't reply and this was 2 weeks ago...I guess I felt hurt about what he had said to me lately and I obviously still have left over feelings for him but I know I will reply to him one day in the not so distant future...
Also not every thought we get about contacting someone is them wanting us to contact them. Sometimes they could be thinking 'I hope my ex doesn't contact me it would be easier for both of us to move on' and we pick up on that vibe and get super nervous and anxious and all we want to do is contact them and do it a lot and they just sit there thinking 'damn this is annoying, this is exactly what I didn't want to happen' .
I did try contacting yesterday, went badly, no reply but said 'seen' and put me in a nervous angry vibe but I still have faith and think that maybe he didn't answer because he was nervous , that's all
'What We Think, We Become' -Buddha
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Re: Question about taking action
You can do anything you want and should not limit your actions to rules especially if they don't feel right to you.
Should you contact your ex is person dependant.
There is no reason to not contact an ex and it's not going to hinder your manifestation if and only if your contact initiation is coming from a place of alignment and not neediness or impatience.
I think everyone should go through a no contact period, it's a time of healing. However once you are in alignment the directive as to who contacts who has to come from you.
Inspired action can only happen when you are in alignment, so that's why LOA always starts with you focusing on you. Once you are in a high vibration you have the confidence that the action you take is coming from the right place.
No size fits all, but you have to always think why am I doing this? What do I hope achieve?
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com