Hey everyone, I'm back on the forum...

Me and my ex broke up in January, which is when I discover the loa and this forum, for months I was pretty desperate to get him back, trying out all the techniques etc and just didn't feel like it was working (probably because I was desperate) so I just one day decided to give it a rest and try and get over it! Which Iv done, I feel so much more independent and happy now, Iv dated other people.. Which has shown me that there are other people out there for me, but.... I still want him, so I'm back on here to see if I can get him back, only this time I don't feel desperate at all and more just excited to see what happens! Which I think is a way better place to be in...

Any advice would be much appreciated, me and him have been speaking recently and even staying round eachothers houses .. Oops, I'm not going to mention to him getting back together or anything though as want things to happen naturally and trying to be as chilled about the situation as possible... Wish me luck!