Okay, so hey again!! To update, if I was not an awesome manifester boss on this second guy I was telling you about, I don't know what is. The more I talk to him, the more I realize he is an EXACT carbon copy, a lot copy & paste, of both of my exes, as I requested & guess put in my vortex. I was laughing to myself all night last night on the phone with him, as he would tell me about himself & randomly state very specific things about himself that were the same very specific things in both my exes on different subjects. Even the same exact lesser positive qualities that my exes had he has. Ones that I must've put strong emphasis on with my exes before lol. It's sooo odd, like for example, if my last ex really liked hmm Idk, let's say red skittles for example, & he ate them every day at 4o'clock, this kid would be like "oh btw, did I mention to you that I reealllllyyyy like red skittles & I eat them every day at 4 o'clock?!" lol for no reason at lol. Just a very random example; but he has the same exact interests as both of them and their mannerisms and personality traits. Like he has the shyness & quietness of one, and likes to cook like the one, and does photography & fashion like the other. One ex is a mama's boy & so is this guy as he self proclaimed of himself, while at the same exact time the other ex says his mom is a "helicopter mom" &  this guy says the same also lol. Its so comical how he's exactly the same as the both of them, mixed & matched!! His mom is even friends with my ex's mom apparently as I saw on fb, & they live in completely different areas. The only thing different is that I put in my vortex that all the guys I date are Libras, bc they have been and so am I lol. But this guy is not. But he is on the Libra cusp I think, bc his bday is right after the Libras date. So he was actually born in the same month as both my exes too lol!!

Anyway, so I have to say that the reason why I am writing to begin with is bc he does seem to be a little immature t

Cherished wrote:

Hi honey, firstly the ex disappeared because one day he probably was late texting you for a legitimate reason.. And you likely began to feel that familiar fear rising.. And then you are quickly pulled into the momentum of "he's disappeared." In order to ride it out quickly, you must change your story and find faith be excitement that what has his attention right now will only serve to benefit your relationship. Trust that, and it will be what transpires. You are reacting instead of creating.

The next guy. You snooped on him. Why? Creeping on his social media is only playing out your fears and insecurities. So you saw some things you didn't like- no big deal because YOU KNOW that you attract from people exactly what you expect. To me, the mere fact you began searching him (solely for photos?) indicates that you were operating a little from fear instead of creating like a boss. Anyone can be the right one, if you have clear, strong intentions, desire, and the mindset that they are good and kind and wonderful. If you genuinely vibrate that, then you will attract those aspects of themselves to you. You won't activate the other, less wonderful qualities.

Hey beautiful, thank You so much for your response! To be quite frank, you are exactly right on both of them! There was a weekend that he didn't hang out with me & instead did a photo shoot (he's a photographer) with this one girl that I had seen left him a post on his instagram, & I felt a little insecure comparing myself to that girl for no reason at all really, & I think that's where my positive momentum went down with him. I texted him while he was out & he didn't respond until later, & I started thinking it was bc of her, when really I should have just said its bc he's busy photographing & we will talk later- I mean he's not my bf so he doesn't owe me anything lol! I did focus on that & thus his communication started becoming less & I started saying I'm not hearing from him anymore, & I kn

Thoughtisform wrote:

Hi guys I absolutely love cherished and thank her for everything she has done for me, her posts have done so much to help me and I think her advice is honest and her words are always beautiful.

IMPORTANT: I want to add that I really don't want this thread to turn into a "hate thread" at Rolling Rock, people have different opinions and say things when they're feeling a certain way. Please don't target RR in this post. Instead lets send them love and help her understand cherisheds fantastic methods of helping people!

Thought is form x

Sorry I am responding in this way before I am even finished reading through the thread, but as I'm reading thru the responses some are important enough for me to comment on. This is true to me- this definitely should not have turned into a bashing RR thread, & instead focused on how much help Cherished has been. RR wrote her that in private, & while I understand she shared it, if anyone wanted to "hate" RR they should do that in private & instead thank Cherished here & agree to disagree with RR. Just my personal feelings!