LOA and Freewill

This is not a new conversation, but its one that comes up whever we start talking about using LOA to bring back an ex, or bring to us a specific romantic interest. There are those who are concerned about violating someone's free will. Its a noble concern to have, but I believe in LOA its impossible to AVOID ... if the notion of freewill is even real (I believe its not).

In LOA we don't focus on someone out there, but rather we focus on the version of them within our imagination. We build that image over and over until it feels real, then allow the creative power to manifest it into physical reality. I think that one reason people fail in manifesting a desire around a specific person is that we tend to fall pray into thinking we are changing them. That's a mistake, it relinquishes power to the outer world, to the other person, and to our fears and doubts. 

Its important to get that it only appears that we are changing them, its really US that we change, starting with our inner beliefs, then the universe (or whatever) reflects that change outwardly. But the outer appearance is so compelling, so real, along with our grievances, anger, doubts, negative feelings, etc, all charging our perception of what is real so much we simply cannot get past it. 

Even a clear understanding of the notion of multiple universes, where we don'tn change this world, just bring ourselves closer and closer to a parallel existence to the point of crossing over, doesn't always help. We KNOW we aren't violating their freewill, just finding a version of them that WANTS to be with us ... but our minds get stuck in this shitty external version of everything where each minute is a reminder of what we didn't want.

One thing that I think can help is to understand that any use of LOA at all NECESSARILY involves (what appears to be) altering someone's will. Take the proverbial parking space manifestation, in order for that space to be available, the person using it now must move by the time we get there. If its just any space within a half a block, its more general, and easier to assimlate in our belief system as possible. But if its one, specific space, we find it harder to buy the fact that we can have it waiting for us whenever we need it, period. 

Mostly, its probably a good idea not to chase after an ex. I spent lots of time working on one particular person, more of a "never-was" rather than an "ex," and despite knowing what I know about LOA I just could not break down the barrier of doubt. I decided to stop the process a couple weeks ago ... 

LOA is simple, free will is issusory, with makes LOA possible in the first place, but its not easy, it takes effort and time.