ChaliceSnowFlower wrote:

How are you progressing now One Angel?

Doing great! I've pretty much let him go, rarely think of him and am just doing my thing.  His loss thanks for checking on me!

big_blue wrote:

If you truly want to reconnect with this guy - and I mean you really want him back in your life - do not give up. I dated a guy a little over a month 2 yrs ago and I am working on getting him back. But with that said, do not put your life on hold. Go out, do what makes you happy and enjoy everything life has to offer. Stop reaching out to him, let him contact you. Continue with visualizations, PW, etc and bring about your desired reality.

 
I've been thinking about sonething though.  What if he's still on my mind because I keep doing LOA techniques on him? Is that possible you think?   He did look at my linked in profile again Friday so I'm sure he's looking at my Facebook as well.  Today I was thinking he's an ass because I'm an amazing catch and he's missing out.  I've read where people are resistant because THEY aren't in alignment with you, therefore it doesn't happen.  They still have baggage and work on themselves to deal with.  He was pretty damaged.  Anyway, for today, I'm indecisive.   I'm going to chill for a few days and see how I feel. 

I feel good and am doing my thing.  He or someone better will come at the right time!!!

I met this guy in November, we talked for 2 weeks on the phone and really connected.  When we met, it was "ok" no major fireworks etc but we definitely were attracted to each other.  He then disappeared. He said he wasn't ready even though he really wanted to feel something he couldn't. He was very hurt by his ex-wife who cheated on him and then the rebound girlfriend was a nightmare.  I was fine and have reached out to him just to say hi, how are you 3 times in 5 months.  I sent him a note last week after it being on my heart to do for about a month, just telling him hes still on my mind, I didn't know why because I barely knew him but for whatever it was worth, I was telling him. I ended it with I hope you're happy and just know someone is out there thinking good thoughts for you.  I think he got it Friday because he viewed my linked in profile.  But I haven't heard from him.  It's crazy because I barely know this man, have dated a few others since but I can't get this guy out of my mind or heart.  I've been doing LOA/RI/Lanie Stevens since January and I've seen nothing except he's viewed my linked in profile 3 times. I've tried cutting energy cords to him, doesn't work.  I want to move on but I can't seem to.  He didn't respond to the letter nor has he made any progress of moving in my direction. Should I just stop doing everything on him? Is that maybe why I can't move on? He either needs to move forward or I need to completely forget him but how do I do that? It's stupid.  I barely know this guy.  It's not normal thinking of a guy after only knowing him 2 weeks.  A part of me thinks it's a meant to be thing and a part of me thinks I'm crazy because he clearly doesn't have an interest in me,  but then LOA/RI should be working but he's resisting big time.  Any suggestions? I could really use some input here.  

TheGiver wrote:

One angel wrote:

I'm in the same place or was and am pulling myself out. I've a a hell of a time the last 15 years. Starting from the death of my daughter, divorce, my ex passing and the final blow, my ex fiance taking me for an enormous amount of money. There were times I felt there was a black cloud over me. I went to a vibrational sound therapist and have been doing sound therapy along with mediation, chakra balancing and essential oils. I'm feeling a little more positive. I think when life throws so much heavy stuff at you, it's normal to think there is something wrong with us. Its not. However, subconsciously, there is still negative doubtfull thinking that must he changed. So you need to change your subconscious thoughts. I also listen to subliminal messages while I sleep. There are a ton on you tube. Even though I know consciously my life is just about to explode with good, there's that little ass deep inside that tells me no. I'm kicking her ass out hang in there, do the work and it will change!!!!

Damn what a story! But go you for kicking ass!!!!
 

 
Thanks! I'm not 100% there but I'm working at it!

Shy wrote:

Sorry to hear all this and my good vibes for you OneAngel. I can't say about why you're attracting all this in your life but You better know about yourself and your thoughts. I'm sure there's something you've in subconscious or it's result of Past thoughts which you're getting now. Do you visualise? Have you ever manifested something small? If not then try to manifest small things in your life for which you don't take stress. Probably you're a bit doubtful subconsciously because of these negative events. Consciously you may be okay but subconsciously may be not. If you don't have any idea about it what's going on...check what type of dreams you have had. Are they more negative or positive? It will give you some idea what your subconscious holds.

Also,animals have ability to recognise vibes so try to notice how your pet behaves when you're around him. Is he more lovable to you or makes you upset? It will also help you to know what you're vibrating. If you haven't received your desire whatever it is...so try to manifest small things. Make a list of three things first...like a cup of coffee, a particular picture or a particular outfit....when these things will manifest first, you will get an idea that what you should do. Second, subconscious will have proof that it works so it won't go against you. Third, it will raise your vibes and help you to clear your thoughts.

Yes, I believe it's subconscious. Without giving you my life saga, I've had some pretty serious life stuff happen since 2000 starting with my stillborn daughter ending with my fiance taking me for a ton of money last year.  As far as the animals, I've got 6! They're all very chill.  It's a minor thing really in the grand scheme of things,  but it is frustrating. 

I've never tried manifesting something small.  I go for the big stuff lol.  I'll try something tomorrow and see what happens.

I just got the book "wishes fullfilled" by Wayne Dyer.  The sound vibration therapist recommended