Cynthia wrote:

Self love is good, but it isn't the answer.  Living from the end in your imagination like the relationship that you desire is already a fact is.  You chose to 'go through a friends with benefits situation', nobody forced you, and that didn't show self love to allow yourself to be disrespected like that. Study Neville's teachings and apply them, and not just for a relationship, for everything.  I have personally manifested more than one relationship, as well as many other things, simply by imagining it already existed in pretty much Neville's way, although I hadn't heard of Neville at the time. It only takes a few minutes a day or night, and the rest of the time you just go about your business. Your beliefs are also critical, so if they aren't serving you, start working on changing them to some that do.
 

I’ve been reading into Neville Goddard lately and I’ve honestly seen such progress in my emotional state. There are still days when I feel a little anxious and it takes me a while to get back to how I would like to feel. I usually read my favourite Neville Goddard passages in these moments, but I’m also trying to use visualisation. What do you picture/how do you find it best to visualise? It can be difficult to focus and feel like it’s real sometimes! Xo

Thank you! ❤️ The last conversation we had was a positive one, we hadn’t spoken in a few months but it lasted over a few days with him replying daily. I’m pretty sure he didn’t get back to me after my last message because he was having a chaotic week so I’m trying not to dwell on it! 😂 I’ve usually always been the one that contacts first, even when we were together, so I guess I just need to work on the belief that I’m a priority and he contacts me regularly and we communicate daily...should I just do this through affirmations/living in the end or is there a better method? I’m trying to work on it and not contact him first but the last time that happened we didn’t speak for months...I must have some pretty strong negative beliefs going on! Can I change my beliefs about him contacting me first whilst also contacting him? Or is that going against it? I want to contact him but I want to do it naturally and not because I feel like I have to to make things happen... and I’d have to find a plausible excuse for messaging him!

Also: my friend had this idea that maybe why he went so quiet and distant on me after our last date was because I had acted too hard to get when he was asking how I felt about him (I just played it cool and said he was a nice guy - didn’t want to scare him off!) and that he assumed I wasn’t interested...and my guy has been known to overthink things in the past. I guess I just thought by asking him for coffee it would show I was interested....but then if I’m completely wrong about this and he knew I was interested but backed off cause of my vibrations, then a coffee invite might backfire and come off as needy!

I’m definitely overthinking this. I need to sleep 😂

Xo

That really helped! Sometimes I don’t know whether I’m in low vibration because I’m focusing on him not being with me or because I’ve had an annoying day at work or whatever 😂 living in the end is quite difficult. The current reality just creeps up on me and I’ll just be thinking of it out of nowhere...I guess I just need to practice on training my brain more!  I tried that two cup method last night because it sounded fun and interesting - it made me feel aligned for a little while which was nice! I think I’m going to try journaling about things I’m visualising to make sure I make time every day living in the end, I have a stressful time consuming job that often means I don’t get a chance to properly take a few minutes to align myself!

Thank you!
angel xo

Hey guys,

I’ve read a lot about how changing your beliefs is the key to manifesting, and how limiting beliefs often hold us back from manifesting to our true potential. But how exactly do you change a belief you’ve had for so long or that is repeatedly being confirmed by events? For example, beliefs that someone treats you badly, weight is hard to lose, money only comes from hard work etc.

It feels different from simply “changing your thoughts”, because obviously your thoughts are influenced by your subconscious beliefs. I find it difficult to replace a belief I’ve had proven to me numerous times before or that has been ingrained in me since childhood, even though I know those events have manifested due to my beliefs, they create more power for the belief. How do I stop the vicious cycle?? 😂

I hope this makes sense!

Much love,
Angel xo

Marykat wrote:

Really want to message my person but the last time I sent him a message he never saw it..... I feel like it would be the same but I did see a few signs today and I know my vibrationals are improving cus I get a lot of compliments at my part time job.... I do my scripting and living in the end but I get so impatient sometimes and go back to those feelings in the past.... ughh

I would recommend not messaging him and trying to act is if he’s already messaged you and eliminate the absent feeling you have about the contact between you. I was in exactly the same position as you and I messaged him, and he didn’t reply which ruined all the good vibrations I had going on and really took me back a bit progress wise! I think it’s definitely better to wait until he messages you, the last thing you need is to message him now when you’re getting these good signs and for you to not get the response you are after and your feelings and vibes come crashing down and make you doubt the LOA. And when he messages you (which he will!) it will only raise your vibrations because you manifested it, rather than trying to force action and not getting the result you wanted. I would continue enjoying all the uplifting things you have in your life right now and enjoying the signs and know that his message is already here! I know how hard it is when you miss them and want to talk to them but it helps me when I imagine and believe that we are already spiritually connected whereever the two of us are, so I don’t need to have the physical proof of communication to know that we have a strong connection 😊

I hope this helps!

Angel xo