I haven't posted in a while, but I've continued doing my manifesting techniques and a lot of good things have happened for me. Long story short, I was in a toxic marriage for a number of years. I finally got up the courage to leave and move in with my dad as a trial separation. My ex was upset for a long while, pestering me to get back with him, etc. I kept hoping to manifest happiness for my ex-husband and an amicable split, where no one is badly hurt. Then one day, I got the call from him, saying he had decided he wanted a marriage dissolution and believed we are better off not together! No hard feelings, our demons just didn't play nice together, and we are on the road to a dissolution very soon without any bad blood. I tell this story as, to me, it proved manifestation is possible for me. I wish I could describe the technique I used, but I'm not entirely sure how it was different than what I'm currently working on, which is a romantic relationship with a good friend. And no, it's not a rebound situation. My marriage was in trouble for years, we've been separated for quite a while, and this man and I have been friends for several years. Definitely long enough for me to be sure of my feelings.

So why did I call this the post "horniness" factor lol? Well, something hit me today that may be causing issues with my ability to manifest the relationship just yet. First, I'm not someone who likes to sleep with anyone I'm not interested in. I can't do one-night stands at all. That doesn't appeal to me. But there are times when I get to thinking about my friend and imagining what it would be like to be intimate with him, and I, admittedly, get too excited. Like, in the "I need this NOW" feeling. It's hard to be happy in the present when I just want to jump this guy's bones. And there is really no substitute for that right now. He's the only one I'm interested in, and "going it solo" helps some, but ultimately leaves me feeling empty. 

So my question is, how do you get p

First, a little background (I'll try to be brief, so I don't bore you!) I live in the States. I am married, but I have not been happy for a number of years, and I stay mostly out of sympathy. My husband has a lot of mental issues, and I know my leaving will not help those, but I also know I can't sacrifice my happiness forever. I have a male friend, quite a bit older (I'm 38 and he's 61) that I have very strong feelings for, and I do want to be with him. I've tried visualizing myself and him together, happy, while my husband is out of the picture and content elsewhere (presumably divorced from me, and in a new, loving relationship.) I also do a lot of self-love.

So my first question is, do I need to be visualizing the ultimate end result or should I be trying to manifest smaller pieces of this puzzle, like my divorce, or my friend revealing that he feels the same as me, etc. Or is that putting too much focus on the "how it will happen?" My second question is, how much of this do I need to be handling in my current life? For example, do I initiate the divorce or try to manifest it coming from my husband? Or, do I reveal my feelings for my friend (who I doubt has any idea that I'm feeling as I do for him), or try to manifest him coming to me? I don't want to "pick the fruit before it's ripe!" I also find it hard to live in the end with so many steps needed to make this end result happen, which is why I was wondering if I needed to focus on the steps in between more.

Any help is greatly appreciated!

I think I experienced a partial manifestation today...

I had previously visualized my POI calling me and saying he had a question for me. He would ask if I had time to talk, etc., in a serious tone. So he does call me tonight and he starts to say this very thing...but instead of asking me if I would like to be more than friends, he asks me a computer-related question. Sigh. But is it possible, since the convo started out like I'd imagined, that I had a partial manifestation lol?

I posted about this on Lanie Stevens' forum as well, but got few responses. I discovered Veronica on Youtube this morning, and I loved what she had to say. So I thought I'd give this forum a go.

So my question is, does anyone have any suggestions for manifesting a love relationship with a male friend? I would love for us to be more than friends, but I have no idea how to make the transition without possibly hurting our friendship. I don't know how he feels, and I'm not good at recognizing that kind of thing. He is aware that I'm still married to my first husband, but that this will change as soon as it's feasible. I've tried Lanie's Pussy Whip technique and some of Agnes Vivarelli's meditations, but I'm wondering if the marriage issue is blocking the manifestation. 

Any advice anyone could give me would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!