So I asked for some guidance on a topic and I really feel like I have received a lot of signs but I'm not really sure how to interpret them. I mean, I am unsure if I should do this thing that I asked guidance about or not. Kind of confused, any thoughts?

It's been a month since my ex boyfriend broke up with me for the second time. While I have been feeling a lot better this breakup than I did during the first breakup, I often find myself feeling discouraged. Last time I focused on visualising and sending love and all that, but right now all I want to do is let go tbh. I don't want to check for signs and think about him as often as I do. The issue is that I just can't seem to let go...I would love to forget about him and my desire for having him back because I know that the universe doesn't forget about your desire. I know that the universe knows what I want and that it is working on it, but meanwhile I just want to let go of this desperation and anxiety and almost forget about him. How do I do this...?

Woow, while writing this, he deleted 20 songs from his spotify playlist that were all connected to me, and love songs. Don't know what to think about this...

Hi guys  
So I have come up with the realisation that I have a limiting belief about contacting my ex. After everything I've read online about what happens after the NC rule and from my own experience last time we broke up where I contacted him first, I think a big part of me thinks I am the one who has to contact my ex in order to reconcile...I don't really know how to fix this belief...

Is it really really possible to manifest him back without ever doing the first contact? Because all these programs online write that after NC you should send a text etc. The reason to why I am so against being the one to contact is because I pretty much begged and pleaded for him not to break up and also because I did it last time we broke up so I would come off as very needy and insecure. 

Scarlet11 wrote:

Cynthia wrote:

Scarlet11 wrote:

Yeah, I think so.
​You should be a little bit distant and cold to him.
​Perhaps he thinks that you will let him come back to you no matter how many bad things he would do to you.
​He is confident that you will let him come back to you even though he had hurt you.
​Don't let him think that way.

 
Very bad advice, immature game playing, not what you do when you truly love somebody.

​I'm sorry, I didn't mean to give anyone a bad advice ​ It's just my opinion, maybe I'm wrong.
 

I mean, everywhere I read and from what I think that I know it has always been that people (especially guys) want what they can't have. So I don't blame you for your answer. What do you guys think about this?