Yeah I am not totally sure, but it took nearly two weeks, so even if he ignored it, he eventually thought about it and went back in and accepted it.  So  I am happy,.

I am pretty darn sure he either rejected it or "ignored" it, as in clicked delete (I know cuz i do the same thing lol).  So weeks went by and that means he would have had some "reason" to go back through it to accept.  That leads me to believe it was not "chance", cuz you gotta be intentional about going back.  The amazing thing is that it happened exactly how I imagined it, even down to the day, Sunday.  

Wow, in total shock (in a good way).  Saw a hot young waiter a number of weeks ago, nearly a month.  Super cute and sweet.  I got a photo with him.  My friend said "Oh he is too hot, out of your league".  I resisted that negative assertion.  I found the guy on Facebook and added him and send him a nice message.  He did NOT accept nor did he click "seen" on my message.  I really fell for him big time.  After his ignoring my message and rejecting the FB friend request, I guessed that he wasn't interested or viewed me as soon loon, after all I don't really know him nor do we have any friends in common, just a hot waiter....nearly a stranger.  A number of weeks went by.  I decided to take Veronica's video to heart and do visualization and using Neville's techniques.   In the back of my mind I realized (just like I tend to do and many others) the more time goes by when I first ignore or reject a FB request or message, the less likely I am to revisit it and add the person or respond, even for practical reasons since more people are messaging and the original message simply moves down.  So for about two weeks I daily visualized that he has "seen" my message (like how it shows a "seen" or check mark when seen).  I concentrated well and saw in my mind the "seen" check mark.  After the two weeks, he saw my message after initially ignoring it for weeks.  And then another week later after that I then visualized daily (as in the video) he icon and everything of him Accepting my friend request and I visualized my name and his name "are now friends".  I went to church today, prayed, visualized, came home and BAM.................the red flag was up, after all these weeks it said "we are now friends" .  It worked and came about exactly how I visualized.  So happy and also very amazed.  

I agree.  Right before you drift off and then the time when you awake and are still drowsy......perfect times for visualization and embedding your subconscious mind.  Dr Wayne Dyer talks about this, so does Dr Joseph Murphy, and many others too I suspect.  When I was in college I was taught this and we experimented with it by impressing in our minds a time to wake up.  Think of a weird time, say 6:17AM and imagine it, see it, then you will wake up at that time.  Worked for me.  The same goes for that time when you first awaken.  You can tell yourself many things such as "I will have a great day" or "I will see a bird on the way to the bus stop today", then visualize it.  

I am very sorry to read that your friend is being so negative.  I know this from my own experience too.  I have a friend who, every once in a while, will tell me what I am doing is not going to bear fruit.  That he is never coming back to me etc.  Instead, he says, I should give up and move on.  That I should pray for help to "get over" it.  This is all negative and not even helpful to us. Some people just do not understand, even if they are on our side.  So this is why the Bible teaches us to go pray in private in your own room, behind closed doors.  Don't share with people who could distract your in a negative way.  Go to people you trust.  I learned my own way that I am no longer telling friends that I am trying to manifest my ex back.  I have only ONE friend who I trust and discuss things with about LOA.  And we agreed that nothing negative will be said between us on that topic.  Since then, things have been better.  Pick that one good friend who is not going to be negative and make them your best cheerleader, supporter.  Wishing you much success.