Wow, in total shock (in a good way).  Saw a hot young waiter a number of weeks ago, nearly a month.  Super cute and sweet.  I got a photo with him.  My friend said "Oh he is too hot, out of your league".  I resisted that negative assertion.  I found the guy on Facebook and added him and send him a nice message.  He did NOT accept nor did he click "seen" on my message.  I really fell for him big time.  After his ignoring my message and rejecting the FB friend request, I guessed that he wasn't interested or viewed me as soon loon, after all I don't really know him nor do we have any friends in common, just a hot waiter....nearly a stranger.  A number of weeks went by.  I decided to take Veronica's video to heart and do visualization and using Neville's techniques.   In the back of my mind I realized (just like I tend to do and many others) the more time goes by when I first ignore or reject a FB request or message, the less likely I am to revisit it and add the person or respond, even for practical reasons since more people are messaging and the original message simply moves down.  So for about two weeks I daily visualized that he has "seen" my message (like how it shows a "seen" or check mark when seen).  I concentrated well and saw in my mind the "seen" check mark.  After the two weeks, he saw my message after initially ignoring it for weeks.  And then another week later after that I then visualized daily (as in the video) he icon and everything of him Accepting my friend request and I visualized my name and his name "are now friends".  I went to church today, prayed, visualized, came home and BAM.................the red flag was up, after all these weeks it said "we are now friends" .  It worked and came about exactly how I visualized.  So happy and also very amazed.