have noticed more posts than not seem to get read and have little or no replies, I realise not everyone has the answers but its a bit disheartening to put yourself out there hoping for advice or support to find lots of people have read and not gone on to comment. 

What baffles me most is that many on here seem to be desperate for the answers, the tiny details of what works or not (me included!) ..  yet I have posted several success stories - some amazingly so, along with instructions what ive done, gone into ton of detail and either got no replies or perhaps a handful ' well done, thanks for sharing ' etc 

That's fine, as at the time I'm usually flying high with my success and simply wanted to give hope by sharing my story but it seems no one is interested in success, only the struggles. I've noticed the posts that seem to get most response are to members about to throw the towel in saying loa is load cr*p then everyone seems to come out in its defence and it all kicks off.

Before anyone jumps on me, please dont think I'm being petty or negative - far from it, I think if we all tried to encourage and support each other on this board, even if we're not sure of the answers or what to say surely it would create a more positive environment and we would also be raising our vibration .. and that can only be a good thing. right ?

I haven't been on the forum for a while, I decided to take a step back from the on/off long distance relationship that was causing me so much angst and pain - I decided if it was meant to be, then somehow things would work out .. what's meant for you wont pass you by and all that I was tired of all the visualising, remote seduction, scripting etc and I guess carried some resistance which probably blocked any long term success - so I stopped and unintentionally let go I suppose.  I carried on listening to loa vids on youtube daily as I worked, I did self love affirmations and if I heard from him even if it was negative I recorded how grateful I was in my journal. Gradually he contacted me more and more and each time he did I wrote how grateful I was etc .. really focused and felt the gratitude, then he started to visit unexpectedly, started to initiate loving texts and phone calls and has gone from visiting once a month (as we wre on/off) to 5 times in the last 9 days !!!! I'm so grateful, I could never have imagined things would turn around like they have .. ok, we have a way to go yet but we're in a completely different place to where we were a month ago,  I truly believe its down to letting go, accepting what will be will be and being truly grateful for the times he made contact or visited good luck everyone, don't give up - 2 months ago he told me we were going nowhere, I was devastated but things have changed completely.  miracles really can happen <3 PS. they other thing id recommend is not to chase, have some self respect, work on yourself. tThis is attractive - chasing is a repelant . 
 

perhaps he has touch of depression and not sure what he wants?seems strange you should break up when it was going so well? he sounds confused, perhaps he said he wanted no more contact in the heat of the moment?i'd personally go no contact, have some me time and start doing few techniques when you feel better, if you feel like it of course.ive manifested my ex back several times when he was pushing me away, said we were going nowhere etc .. he was and is going through a tough time emotionally atm (currently losing a loved one to cancer ) I find focusing on the positives in our relationship and not the negatives really helps ;)  I know we'll be fine in the end and I'm sure will too if you just give it some time x

my bf ghosted me for a couple of weeks, I know he is under lot of stress so gave him space but then he was completely ignoring me and I called him out on it .. we had words and he put the phone down on me.it was a week today, funn​ily enough - by that point id had enough of this disrespectful and hurtful behaviour so I switched off both mobile and landline, decided to make a stand - I wasn't going to be there when he wanted to talk or on his terms, I just went awol.I got 15 calls and 8 texts in 3 days, it was hard not to reply at first but my anger spurred me on .. in the end he sent a great long text apologising and wanting to meet up to talk, I ignored that one and following day just replied - thank you, I appreciate that.he came up that night and apologised in person and we're now back on track again, although I wont let him behave that way towards me again.in those 3 days I managed to get on with some jobs, and when felt bit low did some visualising and scripting where he was apologising for his behaviour .. coincidence? not sure - can things manifest that quickly? x

I joined this forum after I had been dumped, manifested him back was dumped again, manifested him back ..

then, yesterday he told me we needed 'time out' he didn't know what he wanted anymore or where we were going admittedly he has a lot of stress in his life with one thing and another and his teen daughter is giving him him lots of grief about me, she doesn't want him to have a girlfriend (shes only just found out about me, he kept me secret for 4 yrs as he said this exact situation would happen) she sounds pretty selfish .. but I'm mostly hurt after all these years he's willing to risk losing me because his daughter is being a spoilt brat. so I went no contact after he dropped the bomb shell, I know he tried to call me at least once last night as there was a missed call, my daughter thought was her bf and checked but it was him and then again this morning, I was planning to avoid but my son picked up the phone - he said he wanted to know how I was .. WTF?? he called time out, then calls to see how I am the very next morning?

 I do love him deeply and have been practising loa to bring more commitment (hard as long distance) but this whole situation with his daughter is wearing me out, I really don't know if I want this struggle any more .. but mostly hurt I mean that little to him he cant stand up to her, she's 16 not 6 I'm so up for going no contact to heal and try and move on, my pride is so hurt

then I suddenly wondered could the universe have brought this situation about to make him decide if he wants this and make a commitment once and for all? I'm not wishful thinking or trying to clutch at straws as don't want to give myself false hope - but seems strange ive been visualising his daughter knowing about us (finally!) everything out in the open and we deal with the fall out, she accepts me and we all move forward - seems funny she finds out about me 4-5 weeks after I starting visualising the fact and not in the 4 previous years.

Don't know whe