I joined this forum after I had been dumped, manifested him back was dumped again, manifested him back ..

then, yesterday he told me we needed 'time out' he didn't know what he wanted anymore or where we were going admittedly he has a lot of stress in his life with one thing and another and his teen daughter is giving him him lots of grief about me, she doesn't want him to have a girlfriend (shes only just found out about me, he kept me secret for 4 yrs as he said this exact situation would happen) she sounds pretty selfish .. but I'm mostly hurt after all these years he's willing to risk losing me because his daughter is being a spoilt brat. so I went no contact after he dropped the bomb shell, I know he tried to call me at least once last night as there was a missed call, my daughter thought was her bf and checked but it was him and then again this morning, I was planning to avoid but my son picked up the phone - he said he wanted to know how I was .. WTF?? he called time out, then calls to see how I am the very next morning?

 I do love him deeply and have been practising loa to bring more commitment (hard as long distance) but this whole situation with his daughter is wearing me out, I really don't know if I want this struggle any more .. but mostly hurt I mean that little to him he cant stand up to her, she's 16 not 6 I'm so up for going no contact to heal and try and move on, my pride is so hurt

then I suddenly wondered could the universe have brought this situation about to make him decide if he wants this and make a commitment once and for all? I'm not wishful thinking or trying to clutch at straws as don't want to give myself false hope - but seems strange ive been visualising his daughter knowing about us (finally!) everything out in the open and we deal with the fall out, she accepts me and we all move forward - seems funny she finds out about me 4-5 weeks after I starting visualising the fact and not in the 4 previous years.

Don't know whether to keep visualising for a happy and peaceful outcome for all, that she accepts me, that he realises he's made a mistake or just move on .. seems counterintuitive going no contact to heal then spending my time focusing on him .. no idea what to do for the best
PS what are the signs things are manifesting? could this blip be the obstacles i keep reading about?  i feel wierdly calm and although dont look like it from outside, plus im upset and angry at him I feel things are going to turn out ok - not sure if thats my ego or if universe is trying to tell me my hard work has paid off, confused

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