Let it go as in don't let it be your main focus. Yes, you can have the desire, but do not bother focusing on the outcome, instead just go on about your day as if it already happened. Giving gratitude in the morning and in the night is a great way to feel as if you already have it.

I get it, so change your focus. It is all about mental discipline in which you train your mind to be more positive, that is really where the work is required, yes sometimes those bad thoughts creep in, but you need to remind yourself that you are okay within your present because your thoughts are not what is happening to you in that moment. For example, I can be reading a book and then the fear of him not coming back comes up. But it is just a thought and in my present time I am reading, so I will just let it slide and go back to reading. Mindfulness meditation really helps you become more aware of your thoughts and what to do about them. You are very much capable of having him back, I was able to do so after a lot of practicing and healing.

For a short period of time I was beginning to feel as though he hurt me and putting all the blame on him, ready to let him go. Until someone made me see just how wonderful of a person he really was. Even he says I have changed, and he loves how much I have grown. But I did not make him the center of my thoughts, what helped was changing my focus to me, with that I was able to notice everything that was happening in my life. I used to be as squishy as puddy and now I am a tough cookie, who is still sweet, but I know my worth and to never lower my standards. Please, make this about you. :Love ya! 

If you feel you are ready, than do it. If you still feel uneasy about the situation than don't do it.

Justine wrote:

Hey guys, 

Sometimes when we're feeling low it is hard to find things to be grateful for. Why not share them here with other people?   Let's staaaart. 


- I've always been this super positive person and I smile at people all the time. Since Yesterday I've noticed that now people are smiling at me more than usual. Now they smile at me first! I'm really grateful for that because it makes me feel really good !! I even got a few random people stopping me in the streets to say "hi". It makes me feel like I'm glowing! And I like to think that my vibration is more and more positive everyday!  

- Today I did a short PW meditation in the morning. And right after I felt a huuuge wave of relaxation in my body. I'm really grateful for such a "physical" and "psychological" effect ! 

I love this so much. I can tell you are a very positive person, I am grateful to have read this post because it makes me happy knowing that there are more positive people out there.

You are the creator and you can choose how to go about situations. There will be things that you will not like, but this world is filled with many vibrations and so you have the choice of whether to let it impact you or not. Remember that your thoughts impact everything, so about those sick days, there is more than just germs involved, negative thinking causes a weaker immune system. I have been around lots of people with fevers and have not gotten sick because I believe myself to be healthy.