Oasiscalm wrote:

collie wrote:

TT,  has a video on how to attract someone specific. What I didn't get in that video and it kind of put me off is that he says not to imagine yourself with your sp but rather to only see them in your imagination and imagine them happy. But, where does Neville say that? Neville imagined going to sleep with his wife (in separate beds ..LOL ). Also, I heard of someone who manifested a sp and knows Neville and she visualised them together.
Also, I don't understand if there is no free will then how can you manifest a friendship with a sp? What is the difference between manifesting a friendship and a romantic relationship? The only difference in my opinion is your beliefs about what you can manifest. And who doesn't want their sp to be happy with them?? aha i want to manifest my guy so he can be miserable and suffer??? NOOOO!!

Neville talks about visualising a scene which signifies the end goal. In his day couples slept in two single beds because they didn't have double beds. So for him to sleep in a bed with a woman in a bed next to him is the picture of a married couple.

Like he says see and feel a ring on your finger. That image in itself summaries the whole story of being married.

What Twenty Twenty is talking about is simply going to the end - see you end desire. For some when they are trying to manifest another person actually the other person's happiness is the last thing on their mind. They just want the person back - often want them to come back and apologise - right old wrongs - etc etc.

By doing as Twenty Twenty says it jumps over all the bits in between and allows u to just focus on the end result. Seeing a person happy to be with u - essentially just soaking up the essence of the desired relationship.

Personally I would say don't muddy the waters with focus on free will - but that's just me😂😂

I don't think there is free will..but anyways.
When I visualise me and my sp I always think of him being happy

Oasiscalm wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/index.php?topic=25598.msg213775;topicseen#new

I spotted this discussion on another board about Neville. I'd be interested in views as I am just starting to read all of Neville's work. (Perhaps I should have put it in the Neville section??)

 

 
Where he talks about people following the process for years and nothing happening - I would say to anyone at the most basic level if you have been doing something for a long time and getting no results or movement then you need change something quickly. I can tell you I applied Neville and Abe etc for a long time and kept failing because I wasn't applying fully - so would I say the system doesn't work or would I say I didn't use the system properly?

OasisCalm- can you please explain what you mean by 'you weren't applying fully'?
Thanks

I saved this article but it's not the one I was referring to
https://thelawofattractionandmylife.com/2014/12/03/settling-for-what-you-want-nothing-less/comment-page-1/#comment-5258

Totally agree. This one LOA guy said something in an article and i totally agree with him...those that wantca desire but say this or something better lack belief and are settling as they don't believe they will get their specific desire. He said that also in relation to a specific person where people say they wanted person x but got person y and they  are happy..he said that person lacked the belief so they gave up when they got person y.
I agree..the universe listens to us and doesn't decide what is best for us...we decide!!!

Hi

I have a few:

1. Job of my dreams
2. Build my house
3. Have New Kids on The Block sing Happy Birthday to me on their cruise and get VIP passes and a selfie with Joey