whitebutterflies11 wrote:

Amyh24 wrote:

I think there is a 3rd person in mine as well. I know they were hanging out 2 months ago. Not sure about now but when she pops into my mind, I dismiss her and say "____ loves me". I read something today that I wanted to say when the negative stuff pops in and I can't remember it now. It was something like "the universe knows my intention and is delivering it". Not those exact words but something like it.

That's good to know! I'll have to use that too!!

Question about visualizations. I just did one for the 25 day challenge and it was very vivid. Not overly emotional though 😭 But anyway, when you did your visualization about him proposing, do you do it along to calming music or something? Or do you just kind of close your eyes and go for it?

I just closed my eyes and let go of the thought of what I was doing and just let it play out in my head. I hit rewind a few times to rescript as it was going but focused with emotion.

Day 11 now... I visualized for the first time last night and truly felt emotion to the point where I started crying. He asked me to marry him in the visualization and i was so overwhelmed and happy that I cried.  Tears of joy..

Avaelle wrote:

Meg2222 wrote:

Just wondering, how long does it take to see results or receive a message?

Also, How can I stop having negative thoughts, I kinda nip them in the bud when they come but will that ruin everything as soon as I have a bad thought? 

There isn't a set time.  It can happen instantly, days later etc.  It really depends on you.

Negative thoughts don't instantly ruin everything.  If you're catching yourself, re-thinking the thoughts etc - you should be fine.

 
I try to do the same when a negative thought pops into my mind. I say "that's not true" or "get out of here" especially when it is of a third party.

Amyh24 wrote:

Selfloveiskey wrote:

Amyh24 wrote:

Great story.  I have a question about "letting go". I am doing many of the things you are doing but I feel by doing them, I am truly not letting go. Can you please go into "letting go" a little bit more?

I can try. It's more about being happy where you are like you want your desire but it doesn't make you . It's not the soul provider of your happiness. So you do things you enjoy now that distracts you but also you should feel genuinely happy. When you do it's like you are fine without it and that is when it usually shows up.

Thank you. I have been doing Lanie Stevens Get Over Loss Of Love the last few days and have felt different. I think I am getting there. I know that I will be okay with or with out him but still manifesting the heck out of him.

I found this quote and I think it is a great explanation of "letting go"...


"Let it go doesn’t mean that you stop working on your purpose; it’s just that you are happy no matter what.  You are responsible for your own healing and growing just like your ex is for his/hers.  You feel happy no matter what and those are the vibes you send to the Universe."

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/how-to-get-your-ex-girlfriend-boyfriend-back/
 

Selfloveiskey wrote:

Amyh24 wrote:

Great story.  I have a question about "letting go". I am doing many of the things you are doing but I feel by doing them, I am truly not letting go. Can you please go into "letting go" a little bit more?

I can try. It's more about being happy where you are like you want your desire but it doesn't make you . It's not the soul provider of your happiness. So you do things you enjoy now that distracts you but also you should feel genuinely happy. When you do it's like you are fine without it and that is when it usually shows up.

Thank you. I have been doing Lanie Stevens Get Over Loss Of Love the last few days and have felt different. I think I am getting there. I know that I will be okay with or with out him but still manifesting the heck out of him.