Great questions. I am curious to the answers as well.

happygirl97 wrote:

Its just my experience but honestly, these techniques like rs visualusing only made me attached and tense. When I focused on myself thats when my poi came back!
Again thats just how it went for me and maybe veronicas techniques work for you!

Same ! I did the rubbing out technique and I did it yesterday but I use to do it all the time. It just made me wonder why it didn't work etc . I am focusing on me and I feel more positive and I have only been doing this for 3 days and it feels so much better .

I think this is a great example of doing what fits your needs.  RS and visualizing is supposed to make you *feel* good.  If it's not, then it's time to focus on whatever is going to make you feel good.  Some people just do self love, and it totally works! I think you can't successful do RS and visualization without self love too.  So, try to pick whatever gets you in a good vibe.  That's really all it's about.

happygirl97 wrote:

Its just my experience but honestly, these techniques like rs visualusing only made me attached and tense. When I focused on myself thats when my poi came back!
Again thats just how it went for me and maybe veronicas techniques work for you!

VeronicaAdmin wrote:

Yes, the Universe *does* know your desire and won't forget.  If you've already set your intention, then just go out and live life.  Doing LOA techniques is fine if it's boosting your energy, but if it's draining it - then stop stop stop.  You need to *feel* good.  Otherwise, what's the point?

whitebutterflies11 wrote:

happygirl97 wrote:

Its just my experience but honestly, these techniques like rs visualusing only made me attached and tense. When I focused on myself thats when my poi came back!
Again thats just how it went for me and maybe veronicas techniques work for you!

 
Thanks for your reply!! I just think by doing these techniques daily, I'm hanging on to a the specific outcome. Then I get anxious if I don't hear from him. I kind of want to take a break. I set my intention. The Universe KNOWS my desire. I can send him love whenever he pops into my mind and I think I'm just going to leave it up to God.

I think that's the only way I'll experience true detachment!

 

 
Thank you, Veronica! I am so happy and grateful that you answered. I feel good when I do the techniques, it's just I know I feel too attached right now. I still find myself checking his Instagram and Facebook to see if he has any new friends. I know I need to stop. I'm driving myself crazy. But I'm getting back to work (I'm a teacher) and I'm doing things to stay busy and happy. I am doing the 25 day challenge because it makes me happy and feel good! I'll do the techniques once in a while too.

Any other tips?!

80saeaak wrote:

I'm so glad I read this. I've been told that I have very sensitive energy and that I manifest well without techniques or spells. RS does make me very attached to the outcome and I think with as much energy as I put it without intending I may aggravate the situation by doing too much.

I've set my intention. I've gotten my answers. It's time to let go and let it come to me. Thank you for the posts and the answers.

I'm right with you! With what I've done so far (scripting, techniques, vision boards, etc) I know the Universe is WELL AWARE of my desire. I need to let go of the control and let him come to me when the timing is right! In the meantime, I'm going to continue to feel good and do what makes me happy. No stalking!