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whitebutterflies11 wrote:
Selfloveiskey wrote:
I need to re read all of this but I struggle with full belief because to me at times it's like how can I change what's happening with my guy by doing this . That is a negative voice I need to get out . Cause I am currently working to remove a 3rd party .
Glad we are helping each othe guys! πΒ
Sorry, I didn't see your post until now!
I feel like we need to try as hard as possible to block it out of our minds. I'm also dealing with a 3rd party (at least I think I am!) I do agnes' rubbing out technique at night before bed. I do it & then TRY to forget about it. Act as if it's already done! I think of a lot of this as a mind game. Trying to retrain my brain to think positively.
Yea I started doing that a bit but mostly I tell myself the universe will take care of it
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Day 11 now... I visualized for the first time last night and truly felt emotion to the point where I started crying. He asked me to marry him in the visualization and i was so overwhelmed and happy that I cried. Tears of joy..
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Amyh24 wrote:
Day 11 now... I visualized for the first time last night and truly felt emotion to the point where I started crying. He asked me to marry him in the visualization and i was so overwhelmed and happy that I cried. Tears of joy..
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That is amazing!! Now you know there's a lot of emotion behind your visualizetion! You're on your way. Keep it up!
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Keep up the good work guys π
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I think there is a 3rd person in mine as well. I know they were hanging out 2 months ago. Not sure about now but when she pops into my mind, I dismiss her and say "____ loves me". I read something today that I wanted to say when the negative stuff pops in and I can't remember it now. It was something like "the universe knows my intention and is delivering it". Not those exact words but something like it.
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Amyh24 wrote:
I think there is a 3rd person in mine as well. I know they were hanging out 2 months ago. Not sure about now but when she pops into my mind, I dismiss her and say "____ loves me". I read something today that I wanted to say when the negative stuff pops in and I can't remember it now. It was something like "the universe knows my intention and is delivering it". Not those exact words but something like it.
That's good to know! I'll have to use that too!!
Question about visualizations. I just did one for the 25 day challenge and it was very vivid. Not overly emotional though π But anyway, when you did your visualization about him proposing, do you do it along to calming music or something? Or do you just kind of close your eyes and go for it?
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whitebutterflies11 wrote:
Amyh24 wrote:
I think there is a 3rd person in mine as well. I know they were hanging out 2 months ago. Not sure about now but when she pops into my mind, I dismiss her and say "____ loves me". I read something today that I wanted to say when the negative stuff pops in and I can't remember it now. It was something like "the universe knows my intention and is delivering it". Not those exact words but something like it.
That's good to know! I'll have to use that too!!
Question about visualizations. I just did one for the 25 day challenge and it was very vivid. Not overly emotional though π But anyway, when you did your visualization about him proposing, do you do it along to calming music or something? Or do you just kind of close your eyes and go for it?
I just closed my eyes and let go of the thought of what I was doing and just let it play out in my head. I hit rewind a few times to rescript as it was going but focused with emotion.
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Amyh24 wrote:
whitebutterflies11 wrote:
Amyh24 wrote:
I think there is a 3rd person in mine as well. I know they were hanging out 2 months ago. Not sure about now but when she pops into my mind, I dismiss her and say "____ loves me". I read something today that I wanted to say when the negative stuff pops in and I can't remember it now. It was something like "the universe knows my intention and is delivering it". Not those exact words but something like it.
That's good to know! I'll have to use that too!!
Question about visualizations. I just did one for the 25 day challenge and it was very vivid. Not overly emotional though π But anyway, when you did your visualization about him proposing, do you do it along to calming music or something? Or do you just kind of close your eyes and go for it?I just closed my eyes and let go of the thought of what I was doing and just let it play out in my head. I hit rewind a few times to rescript as it was going but focused with emotion.
Okay I can do that and visualize well. I just don't know if I'm putting enough emotion behind it!
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Hey guys how are y'all doing? I started the challenge over again. I didn't complete it but just felt better staring it over after Friday . How are you guys?
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I'm on day 17. I feel really good. Ex has been texting but I'm trying to keep it all surface,,,,.veronica said it isn't about ignoring them you can still be polite.
Signs I have seen......double numbers all the time....feathers in my path.....and exes coming around or me hearing about them on the news.....
Still I feel like my ex isn't close to wanting reconciliation so I wonder what is going to happen. I know I shouldn't think that way bc I'm showing lack when I do that..bit the more into this I get the more I'm thinking about how exactly this reconciliation is going to happen.....time will tell I guess....