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So i just received my Dear John message !

My ex has just been re-contacted by a guy she was seeing after we broke up....he contacted her last night and they are going to give it another try

I have mixed emotions.....
Sadness...still believing strongly that LOA works etc etc

But just wanted to share my story so far

Hope you other guys are having lots of success with your own adventures

So when ur buzzing on life ??

ForgetYourEvil wrote:

Further reinforcement that you don't need to do anything. Less is more when it comes to LOA and attracting. Don't be down! Your emotions are all about your relationship with your Source.

Thanks for reply

And yes......you have to let it do its stuff

Just in moments of weakness etc etc

Stay strong ..the future's bright...if you let it !
 

ForgetYourEvil wrote:

I have major major mood swings. I go from crying, to happy, to upset, to elated.. in a period of seconds..

Like, right now, I just tore up a photo of that house and I'm thinking, "I'll save more... screw it.."

But, I really liked the house.. so I'm like.. "why did I do that?"

But the house is close to my ex.. and she's not with me right now... so I'm like, "That was the right move."

But then I'm like, "Yeah.. but she'd want to pick out the house with you.. when the time is right.. so that was smart.. just stay put and do this right.. no major decisions right now."

I think the best approach is to just leave this be... let the house go... and let my ex go... and just focus on me and what makes me feel good.

Yeah,this waiting hoping for ur ex to see the daylight is VERY frustrating ..
Everything seems so great for us ..
Why can't they see / feel it ???

I'm there at this very moment ...like a good few of us i guess

But as people have said.....
You've got to try to focus on the future....DON'T look back !
Back is pain
Forwards is joy

Easier said than done ..but if you're doing great....
Isn't she going to want to be part of that....
Rather than finding someone that has been waiting for her !

Move forwards...live well...ENJOY life ...

She'll find you ....dont worry !!

(I think i've actually written this for myself just as much as i've written it for you !!)
 

Thanks for taking the time to reply guys

Much appreciative x