Sweetheart, you keep saying "I thought this was supposed to work", but you're missing how it works still.

Ask. Believe. Receive.

You're still asking. That fear is holding you back. Let go and move on. I watched a video from Dan Rasiostyle the other day and I finally got a clear answer about when you're supposed to stop visualizing and let it work on its own: Once you see the vision clearly, you stop. It means you've set your intention clearly without any confusion about what you want. It's time to believe it and move on.

Letting go is the hardest part. I'm on Day 1 of it. I'm reading "Love yourself Like Your Life Depends on It". When I start feeling resistance, I use the tips in the book. Then when I'm done with this book I'll read another. And another. I'll keep reading until I have no focus on this anymore. I suggest you do the same.

When it comes to reaching out again, I won't tell you not to. I did it. It's been a month with no response. The man said he wanted a woman who wouldn't cheat and wouldn't just give up and leave. Well that works both ways. He can't just throw his hands up and be unforgiving and think he's going to get a different thing than he's putting out (that's not just LOA- that's how life works always). At what point do these guys realize what they're missing? When we move on and don't care. That's when they care. They can't appreciate what's sitting there waiting for them. I'm making it my business to move on. Not to make him come back, but because I'm tired. I'm tired of waiting. I'm tired of wondering when. I'm tired of visualizing. I'm just tired of it. Everything else is working out. When anything else in life doesn't work, we don't sit there and keep pushing and pushing. We walk away. Maybe regroup. Maybe try again later. And maybe not. Sometimes we just say "**** it" and don't think about it again.

Let's say "**** it" together. If it doesn't feel good, it's not right. Why torture ourselves?

Cynthia wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

Thanks everyone!!!

My healer has been training and practicing chi for years and years. The technique she gave me (two different energy forms) were both what she called "advanced" (a circle form and a cylinder form). The only reason I'm hesitant to share is because I'm not trained and I actually did it wrong for several days which was disastrous. I manifested several things in those days, but I wasn't cooling my body down and was sending very intense sexual energy instead of chi energy. The result was very intense sexual images (as in I was driving and could barely keep the sexual thoughts down and they were very vivid and intense and I had to pull over) and they continued for several days until I talked to her and realized what I did wrong. While it was VERY effective for several things (I manifested a job, getting into a class three months early, and a very large sum of unexpected money) in literally four days, I felt very obsessed with my guy and could NOT clear these sexual images out of my head or clear the sexual energy out of my body.

If you're interested in chi energy forms, I would suggest finding a trained chi healer. Wendi's method of the energy ball is also a chi form. I hate to say no, but I'm really not trained. I feel it would be irresponsible.

 

That seems like a sensible reply.  I don't want to become obsessed like you have described. It sounds very unpleasant.

It was quite unpleasant. It was so vivid it was almost as if it was happening. I don't think I've ever been that geared up in real life. I'm a sexual person by nature and this was way over the top. I try not to send sexual energy to him as a general rule of thumb, but I'm sure he received it as I could barely function. The good thing is it let me release all resistance to the things I manifested. The bad thing is it added resistance to the one thing I haven't yet manifested... him.

I only talk about my guy with people who practice LOA or energy work. There are about 3 people who I can say "I'm just pinning ideas for the honeymoon" or "I should do some lingerie shopping. He LOVES lingerie" and they not only don't judge, but encourage it. If you don't have those people, just don't talk about him at all. It's not only about how you feel about their negativity, but also if their doubts are creeping into your thoughts. Don't allow it. You create you're reality and you need to protect it.

Ohhh way more to the story. Sorry. I misunderstood. No, don't contact.

Yeah, I agree with PF. Part of being in a loving relationship is communication. You can't read his mind. Likewise, he can't read yours. You CAN do RS, but I always see that as a last resort.

Personally, I would start over. I would reach out (I know. People aren't supposed to do that!) and COMMUNICATE! Tell him that you're confused, why you're hurting, and that you love him. Don't place blame. If that's not well received, send loving energy via RS. You have something many of us don't have and that's contact with your guy. Use that opportunity. It's the card you have to play right now.